On virtual families, to have a kid, you must be married first. Only married people can have kids. Then drag the lady on top of the man or vise-versa. They may argue or say they are too hungry; be...
In virtual families, yes, children can die. It isn't very common, but they can either starve or, if you don't treat they're illnesses they can die of those. So, basically, if you ignore them for too...
you must be married first, then you drag the couple on to each other. than wait til they do their stuff. you was posibbly get a child and if not you have to try it again in a while.