When there is a split-up between parents it's tough on the kids and all they know is mom and dad and nothing else. They are frightened, hurt, often blame themselves for the split-up and it's a lot of stress on a child's little shoulders. If your child doesn't want to see you, then you should never force him/her. Give them time. Twelve is a very awkward age and puberty has set in so emotions run high. This doesn't mean you child doesn't love you. Take is slow, keep in contact with your ex and see when and if the child is OK with having a visit with you. If you and your ex get along how about doing something together with you child. Have some fun together and see where it goes from there. NEVER question your child about what "mommy is doing or who she is dating" because this is super pressure for the child and they should never have to go through something like that. Good luck Marcy If the non-custodial parent has court order visitation, then the child and custodial parent has to comply with that. If they do not, then the custodial parent can be held in contempt of court. ANSWER NO, after 12 the child does not have to go with the parent. They are legally old enough to make that decision.
No. When parents cannot reach a custody agreement the decision is made by the judge hearing the case. Judges base custodial decisions on what they believe is in the best interest of the child involved and not on the preference of the child or any other involved party.
No. You can petition the court, but you cannot make that choice on your own.
No. Some states will listen to a child's preferences, but best interests of the child will rule.
No, however if there is a concern for safety, that is an issue to present to the court.
Yes, or lose custody.
Unless visitation rights for the non-custodial parent were allowed in the divorce paperwork, the custodial parent is completely within their rights to deny the non-custodial parent visitation....however, the non-custodial parent may sue for visitation rights.
Neither parent; custodial or non custodial decides visitation. Visitation is determined through the courts, and a judge decides when visitation will occur.
This could be considered interference and abusive, but the issue will need to be raised with the courts.
Whether or not a parent is paying child support is irrelevant when the issue is visitation rights. If there is a court order for visitation the primary custodial parent must allow it or be found in contempt of court. If there is not a court order in place the custodial parent can make the decision to when, where or if visitation is allowed. Visitation guidelines are usually established during the custodial proceedings.
Teach the child to respect the authority of the court. Teenagers do not want to be required to do anything with a parent. It's the job of the parent to remind them that family comes first.
Unless visitation rights for the non-custodial parent were allowed in the divorce paperwork, the custodial parent is completely within their rights to deny the non-custodial parent visitation....however, the non-custodial parent may sue for visitation rights.
No. The non-custodial parent needs to have the visitation rights enforced by the court if necessary.
Neither parent; custodial or non custodial decides visitation. Visitation is determined through the courts, and a judge decides when visitation will occur.
The custodial parent is the parent in which the child resides with. My son lives with me and I am the custodial parent, his dad has visitation rights and pays child support.
If the court has awarded you visitation rights, then you have those rights legally and they cannot be denied by the custodial parent.
Yes. The non-custodial parent must return to court and request a visitation schedule.Yes. The non-custodial parent must return to court and request a visitation schedule.Yes. The non-custodial parent must return to court and request a visitation schedule.Yes. The non-custodial parent must return to court and request a visitation schedule.
This could be considered interference and abusive, but the issue will need to be raised with the courts.
If the custodial parent is the one to move, than yes.
By applying to a court.
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First thing..in Indiana...most courts view support and visitation as two separate issues. If the support is required through the courts the judge will ask what the visitation is at that time. However, if the non-custodial parent wants to get visitation without the custodial parents agreement, the non-custodial parent will have to file a request with the court and have a judge issue visitation. If there is no visitation order in place by a judge/court, the custodial parent has no legal requirement to permit visitation. I have dealt with this issue personally as well as my sibling, me being a custodial parent my sibling being a non-custodial parent. So I have seen what happens from both sides. Basically if it something isn't ordered by a judge/court, there is no legal requirement to do visitation or support.
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