Can a fat guy get a girl?

Answer 1

I am a fat girl. I know how tough it can be trying to get a guy. You just flirt a lot with him and be yourself. You don't have to go the extra mile for him. And maybe after awhile he'll get the hint and hopefully ask you out. And if he is too shy, but you think he knows you like him, ASK HIM OUT! It can't hurt.

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I think it depends less on weight than on personality. Some guys are going to be attracted to your personality, and guys that are *only* attracted to your body are pretty lame conversationalists anyway. But the same on your side... are you only attracted to the guy because he is "hot," or do you really like him for other things? ... I have seen many strange match-ups over the years, and I think that if you hang in there, there are going to be opportunities for relationships for everyone... no matter the personality, no matter the weight, no matter the religion, race, or facial blemishes. The true answer here is no... you can't *make* anyone like anyone else. It just depends on personality, priorities, and circumstance. :) If some guy doesn't like you, move on. Another one will. And it is okay. The wait is worth it for those times when you meet someone and you are both attracted to each other for good reasons. :)

Some people consider me a "hot guy" but I totally deny it because I don't want people to look at me because of physical appearance, I want them to look a the person I have inside. You may be a few pounds over what people think is fat. That's just what people say. I personally think if you have a nice, friendly, sweet and caring personality this hot guy will not care if your skinny, fat, blond, brunette, etc. I would only see the real you, that is the inside. I admit that most men do only care about the physical of a woman but what really counts is the inside and if the guy you like can't see that he's not worth it.

I hope this helps and good luck ;)

Answer 2

Of course. Any guy can get a girl if he has the right personality. Looks aren't everything to all girls. I myself find the more i get to know a person and like them, the more attractive they become to me. I find that most guys with the perfect body are really rude and not worth the time or effort... but the bigger guys are more down to earth, you can be your self around them and not have to worry about them thinking your not good enough or pretty enough. You just need to be your self and let girls get to know you as a person.

2.- Yeah! Why not? It's the personality that coutns, a lot of guys like girls with a perfect body, some don't, if she's cool, she can get a girlfriend... Experience talking :)

Answer 3

"Fat Girls" get guys of all types everyday. My son prefers them.

-But it depends how fat. "Fat admirers" will almost always choose fat SOs, but even some average men may take a fat girl as an SO. But generally, yes.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fat_admirer

Answer 4

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YES!

I think that you can get what you want even if you "fat". I dont think your fat, like when i was 13 i thought i was far and a boy asked me to date with him. I acepted and that night i got my fisrt kiss! the guy is really cute and we are still together (:

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Not everybody looks for cuteness and stuff.Personality makes a big difference in the relationship,not looks.
OF course u can! I'm a 5'8" 130lbs guy, most people would find me attractive and i love my girlfriends body at 250lbs. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and im sure u will find your cute sexy man!

Answer 5

That is not nice to say "fat" guy. We are all just people. And people fall in love with each others pesonalities not looks! Teenagers will probably like a girl because shes "hot" or "cute". But older people dont fall in love because of their looks.

Answer 6

Of course you CAN! She first of all has to say YES!maybe wear nice clothes and make your hair look cute and get guts! Who knows maybe she likes you too. And you can always lose weight if you are that desperate. To tell you the truth, of the girl is popular and EXTREMELY GORGEOUS she might go for a guy that is average weight.

Answer 7

Be the kind of a friend other people want to hang out with.

Be interested in others, fun, involved in activities, positive, outgoing, reliable. Don't be so desperate for friends or a girlfriend that you let others use you or take advantage of you....you'll just look pathetic.

Take care of your mind, body and spirit; focus less on "getting a girlfriend" and more on having a fun and involved life.

And quit calling yourself a "fat guy." As my folks would say, Don't put yourself down, there are plenty of other people out there willing to do it for you!

Build yourself up in every way. You'll enjoy your life more and others will want to be with you (girls and guys).

money.

Answer 8

He has to be rich or really cool or smart of something