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Can you really forgive someone who has hurt you?

Updated: 8/20/2019
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Cristinaemerson96

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  • Simply said - yes you can.
  • All God religions call for forgiveness.
  • Quran; Muslim holy book; says (Meaning English Translation): "Those who spend [in Allah's Cause - deeds of charity, alms, etc.] in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger, and who pardon people; verily, Allah loves Al-Muhsinun (the good-doers)." (3:134) and Quran says: "And let not those among you who are blessed with graces and wealth swear not to give (any sort of help) to their kinsmen, Al-Masakin (the poor), and those who left their homes for Allah's Cause. Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (924:22)
  • Also in Christianity it is said "love your enemy" and the first demonstration of love is forgiveness.
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