deb·u·tante
(dby-tänt, dby-)
n.A young woman making a formal debut into society.
It refers to a young woman making her way in society, or more traditionally a begginer, someone who is new at something.
"deb"
it means they would not care if someone was as mean to you as mean as they were to you. sometimes it means they do and its just that they are too insecure to tell the truth and use childish anticks...
Bolting means prematurly going to seed
In some cases it may mean that she's just jealous of you.