Well... I know for a fact that Junior Reserve Officers Training Corps programs are found only in HIGH SCHOOLS. Also, the term is usually shortened toJROTC. Now, ROTC units are found in colleges, and...
As long as they're not within the same Chain of Command (e.g., one is the other's Commanding Officer or senior officer in the chain above), then yes - it's actually quite common for officers to marry...
This is the best thing to do. 4 years of college, dont go all the way through enlistment go to ocs (officer candidate school) go through basic training bam officer. Theres more details here and there...