Can a long-distance relationship work?

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(22) On March 5, 2011 at 3:19 am Deedee109 [0] said:

I believe long distance relation ships do work i been with my boyfriend 9 months met him in a chatting site. we text everyday all day we talk on the phone to. he lives about 2 hoours away not bad i just need to work on getting my license driving on freewasy and i will finally meet him. yes there are times where i get sad saying man what if it never happens its going to take forever but its normal because your not used to not seeing your partner but my relation ship is strong i trust him and he trusts me he tells me when something bothers him and i do the same.I love him alot that i want to marry him in the future.

(21) On February 1, 2011 at 4:41 pm Ifuknowit [0] said:

Yes it does work,

I met my boyfriend through Orkut, I am 2 hours by flight away from him, we have our share of fights, but I still love him inspite the distance and the fights.

(20) On January 7, 2011 at 7:04 am Write thesis [0] said:

it depends actually.. on how both partners are serious in working the relationship. communication, trust, and loyalty are key maintain a healthy long distance relationship. http://www.writessay.com

(19) On September 28, 2010 at 8:56 am Samuel Hounsell [0] said:

No My girfreind of 6 months moved to caimbrige and she said 'it won't work and i need some space' Now she is 'in a relationship'with Carlos Alexander.

(18) On September 9, 2010 at 10:36 pm Ericfish [0] said:

my girl friend lives like about 5000 miles away. will this relationship work?

(17) On April 6, 2010 at 1:52 am RANDY122 [0] said:

YES IT WILL WORK! Me and my girlfriend live about 4000 miles away from each other. :) (we live in the USA) We've been going out for about 2 years and we are getting married. I'm going to college in a few months, and once I'm done a the Air Force Academy, SHE'S ALL MINE!. I think the worst part of long distance relationships is TRUST. YOU HAVE TO COMPLETELY TRUST THAT PERSON. I KNOW I'M NOT CHEATING AND SHE KNOWS SHE ISN'T CHEATING. ITS ALL ABOUT TRUST. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH. People who survive long distance relationships should write books, especially hardcore long distance relationships like mine.:)

(16) On March 11, 2010 at 11:55 pm Mbucher90 [0] said:

Yes, they work! I have a boyfriend who lives 4 hours away! It is difficult sometimes, but it is totally worth it. We only see each other about 3 times a month. I think that it depends on when you have the relationship though. I am 19,so it works out. We are both busy with school, so it wouldn't make much of a difference if we lived closer.

(15) On February 23, 2010 at 1:13 am Xxemoloversxx [0] said:

okay! im not going to be like the rest of y'all writing this! im currently 14 and i truely rhink they do work out! say im currently in one with the love of my life! and dnt be like u dont kno wat love is ur only 14, well "stick a straw in ur juice box and suk it" okay?thy do work if ur really commited and truely in love! u cant be like i dont think it will! all the time. cuz then it wont! if u really love ur spouse i does work out! and i think u should give them all ur trust so u have there's! and if u tlk like every night like i do then it will work! perfectly if that!

(14) On November 27, 2009 at 12:43 pm Antony5378 [0] said:

My experience. I was with my gf for 4 years (i'm 25), as part of her degree she had to live in france for a year, which we both knew would always be the case. We had our ups and downs, it was hard but we got thru it. However after the year she decided she wanted to finish her degree in france rather than Enlang, totally by choice (another 2 years). Unfortunately England isn't quite as nice as France and i was lonely and "messed" up shortly after she returned to start her second year. She forgives me, because she knows she put alot of pressure on us by opting to go away for another 2 years, but i don't think i can be alone for that amount of time. Let me add, before she went away she was living with me and we spent every spare minute together...we were extremely happy. I'm not saying long distance relationships won't work for everybody, but i would never advise being apart when you have a chance to be together. If circumstances alone is keeping you apart, then maybe it could work.

(13) On September 29, 2009 at 8:36 pm V.G17 [0] said:

it depends on the two people involved. i am in a long distance relationship now, my bf has just left for uni, but we were together before that most of the time, so it's a big change and a hard one to get used to, i love him very very much, but i still can't help but feel lonely, often when we speak on the phone he is tired are getting ready to go out, so sometimes i feel like he doesn't want to talk to me, but thats just my insercurties that are trying to make me doubt his love for me or whether i deserve. we have been together nearly nine months, technically it's longer we got together last year but he broke up with me b4 he left for his previous uni, he came back to visit and we could see there was still a spark there but it wasn't till he came back for xmas that we got back 2geva, and then we fell in love. yes we have our ups and downs but what couple doesn't. the distance is hard but he is worth it.

(12) On July 31, 2009 at 5:38 pm Reallywtf [0] said:

they are hard.... oh so hard. i have been dating a guy who is in college almost two hours fromme. we grew up down the street from each other, and are very much in love. he graduates soon, and we are both bery excited about the prospects on the horizon. We have certainly had our share of ups and downs. The cliche' cheating boyfriend took it's toll on my life a short 5 months ago. We are trying to work things out because it is worth it. it has brought us closer in some ways, he almost lost me and now is determined not to. and tore us apart in others, i cant trust him as far as i can throw him, and believe me, that aint far lol. no trust, and 2 hours apart? crazy right? thats what love is... a whole helluva lot of crazy

(11) On May 18, 2009 at 5:14 am Vbroadwe [0] said:

Personal experience tells me LDR don't work. I'm sleeping with a guy who has been in a 9-yr "relationship" with a woman who lives 1,500 miles away. I'm not a home wrecker because 1) they're not married and 2) after 9 years if they had wanted to be together, they would have figured it out by now. But they haven't so there is a reason.

Men are natually horny and women are stupid to think that their beau on the other side of the country isn't going to want a warm bed here and there. Get real.

My lover professes his "love" for his LD gf. Un-huh. I doubt his LD gf would call it sustainable if she knew he was doing other women--unprotected to boot!

(10) On February 3, 2009 at 2:20 pm Meezy12 [0] said:

yes i think me and my boyfriend can work out just fine

(9) On January 13, 2009 at 9:39 pm Jacob rentz [1] said:

i dont know ive tried but she didnt get my lodgic

(8) On September 8, 2008 at 1:28 pm Fujiguy 21 [3] said:

I Know they can work me and my gf have been dating almost to years and we are geting mairied in june that makes me so happy

(7) On September 23, 2007 at 10:33 pm Cathy24 [1] said:

I'm probably not the best person to answer this question. I met a really great guy on holiday. We hit it off instantly. There didn't seem to be enough time in the day to be able to talk about all we had to say. When we both got back from our holidays he wanted me to visit him as soon as i could. I did and we spent a brilliant weekend together. When i got home i instantly started to over analyse the situation and worried that he wouldn't feel the same was as me. He does want to see me again and were trying to arrange for him to come and see me. I really hope that things work out. If things do i know that i'd be willing to move to be with him. How long do you wait before you do that, how do you know when your in love, soo many questions

(6) On June 28, 2007 at 2:45 pm Maximum3 [20] said:

Somtimes, yes. Sometimes, no. Long distance relationships are hard, no doubt, if each partner is committed. If not, then one (or both) don't care about the relationship and are into other people/things, so it really isn't a relationship anyway. I know people who have made them work or had them last, and I also know people for whom these relationships did not work.

One of my friends has a boyfriend who lives in another country! So far, they have made it work. I don't know how long it will last, but right now, each of them is happy. I also have a friend who dated a guy that lived in the southern part of the state, while she lived in the northern part of the state. They saw each other every once in a while, but it ended up not working because it was just too hard for THEM.

It may work for you, you never know. The only way to really know is to try it.

(5) On September 2, 2006 at 9:24 pm 143.88.171.8 said:

There was one answer about Moving to be with the person, and I'm not sure, because as much as I want to move, my parents live in state, and we get in state tuition at my school. I don't want to have to pay more to go up to CT, as I'm in FL, and my boyfriend and his family is still there. We met in high school. So I'm officially waiting about four maybe five years and I'll move once I have the $$, cause I'm currently broke.

(4) On August 7, 2006 at 10:45 pm 203.114.137.66 said:

yes they can work me and my bf have been going out for 10 months and i live in New zealand and he lives in Australia in a little town up by Mackay and i live in a little settlement. Me and daniel both met on KST (kill some time) and i thought i would never find a desent guy and im only 17 yrs old and hes 18 this year. He is planning to come over to NZ in November and be wth me for 2 weeks we might be travelling all aorund NZ. The biggest issue is other people they just don't understand what a long distance relationship is and they try put me of the idea of it but honestly i dn't put up with it. My bf gets upset when people do thisd to me. Next month we will be going out for a year and im excited. And next year im moving in with him and honestly im really happy. I love him so much and i miss every singel day but we call each other, write letters and go on msn and we both have webcam. but the most wonderful thing bout this is when he always calls me beautiful and that im the one who hes been searching for. hes had two realtionships b4 me and he told me that he was gonna give up on life (kill himself) but i hleped him out he loves me for who i am he trusts me he thinks im the 1 who hes been searching for. Telling you now any1 can do it just trust in yourself and that other person don't put yourself down just beleive inyourslef and you'll be with them soon.

(3) On August 3, 2006 at 5:01 am 203.150.209.91 said:

i and my BF met when he had traveled to Thailand. we have a chance to dating only 5 days. anyway, that was such a great time. after that, we keep calling and email to each other everyday. he asked me to visit him at USA. i have decided to go in order to get to know each other better. well, the question is what will be happening after visit. can we sustain our relationship while we are 10,000 miles apart? he said long distance relationship is hard, but then again... what relationship is easy?, i wonder.

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