Discussion on 'How would a man handle his girlfriend cheating?'

(2) On May 17, 2007 at 5:31 pm TRINABABE [461] said:

No self esteem, trained to be a martyr from childhood, witnessed abuse and learned how to handle it. Get this man help......

(1) On May 16, 2007 at 1:10 pm Phoenix302 [0] said:

How would a MAN handle his girlfriend cheating on him?

What is the very definition of taking it and dealing with it like a man?

Is walking away taking it like a man, or is it staying fighting through it and making it work? How does a "man" handle the pain of being cheated on when she feels that you should get over it and refuses to stop being "friends" with that person because they work together.

Men of the world please help me in this conundrum.

It is more deep then what it sounds so I will give a brief synapses of the situation. She gets upset if I call her 2 times in a row and she doesnt answer, yet if she calls and I dont answer she will up to 12 times. I am not allowed to get upset if she doesnt answer, but she can get all irrationally crying and upset she wants if I dont answer my phone. I am berated if I ask a question of where have you been, yet it is perfectly fine for her to do the same and she should have no recourse for that action. She works with him and refuses to cut off the outside (meaning out of work contact) with this person. She states that it would ruin her job and her career. I say that screwing around with someone you work with already has done that.

So how does a "man" handle a situation like this?

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