What are some signs to look for if you think your spouse is cheating on you?

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(26) On March 15, 2012 at 11:46 pm Gameongirl [0] said:

If they start makeing eye contact and put on a kinda shy but like "hey there" look on anouther girl or guy.

(25) On April 19, 2011 at 2:31 pm Trissymonster [1] said:

okay, most uff ya'll are so insecure it ish making yew blind to the simplicity uff eet, uff they ish cheating on yew yeah kick their tushies. but if yew don't know, don't get all the stupid software, TALK TO THEM FIRST!!! there is nuffin wrong with simply asking "why have you been gone so much lately, your becoming so distant and it's really hurting me." they may not admit they are cheating but they will more than likely stop, because they will realize that you do still care and notice when they are gone, if nothing has changed after you talk tew them don't question yewrself, they don't love you anymore, just leave. there is no reason to find out whether or not with the software, talking does the trick just fine. especially, if they aren't cheating ancd find out you've been spying...that will definatly break the relationship.

(24) On March 31, 2011 at 7:36 pm Eddieg711 [0] said:

If you want to catch him/her red handed get the spybubble haha and know for sure. Only because normal people need proof to really confirm this so...

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(23) On February 13, 2011 at 3:13 pm Happlyeverafter [0] said:

you don't need a stupid artical to tell if your partner is cheating. it's going to be obvious. if they lose inerest in what's going on in your life or if you see them "just lookin" at someone eles their probably trying to flurt. do yourself a favore when you see your partner eyeing another person show them that your there for them do more things together. going out and have fun together remind them about why they fell in love with you in the first place. if that don't work. dump their but butts and look for someone better. make them jelous. it mostly works all the time.

(22) On February 12, 2011 at 2:08 pm Rayfc51 [0] said:

It takes me a short while to tell if someone is emotionally cheating in a relationship. I am not a super human for doing this because by the time you are done reading this article, you will do the same. Although there are many signs to be seen in cheaters still if care is not taken you may confuse them for love. See all the signs of cheating here http://www.relations.biz.nf/relationships_and_breakups/signs_of_cheating_in_relationship.html

(21) On January 26, 2011 at 11:51 pm Happlyeverafter [0] said:

you'll know if your partner is cheating on you if they are more "play flurting" with one person than the rest. if they are find out if he/she wants to stay with you or not and hold your ground don't let them break you down to where you say " oh Baby it's ok just don't do it agian 'cause you know they will.

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(19) On January 12, 2011 at 9:21 am Rayfc51 [0] said:

It takes me a short while to tell if someone is emotionally cheating in a relationship. I am not a super human for doing this because by the time you are done reading this article, you will do the same. Although there are many signs to be seen in cheaters still if care is not taken you may confuse them for love. See http://www.relations.biz.nf/relationships_and_breakups/signs_of_cheating_in_relationship.html

(18) On December 22, 2010 at 5:46 am AngelsList [0] said:

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(17) On November 2, 2010 at 2:54 pm Matyra Thompson [0] said:

Well if he comes home from work really late thats one sign. Plus if he keeps making up excuses about where he been everyday, and when the don't let you see his phone most of the time.

(16) On September 17, 2010 at 7:15 pm Stacy Galvan [1] said:

I think my boyfriend is cheating because like some of you guys said he always has he's cell phone with him and when I try to use it he won't let me. He says he works late all the time and on he's days off he is never home. He leaves at 8am and doesnt come back untill is time to pick the kids up from school. What should I do?

(15) On August 31, 2010 at 10:17 pm Gobi999 [0] said:

my patner always hides her phone an even takes it to the bathroomn an keeps it close to her, she is always eagar to get out an say she is going to her mates, says she loves me an says she would never cheat," not a liar not a cheat would feel guitly if i did" she said i would npot put my child though such a thing, turns her phone off wen she gets in bed, i live with her we split 2 months ago then got back together she had a man in between i personalaly think she was seeing him while with me can i trust her again????

(14) On July 19, 2010 at 4:14 pm Bootyshorts25 [0] said:

if she comes home after work to motherfuckin happy your bitch is cheatin.

she doesnt call you on her free time

she doesnt like you to check her phone

she comes home without her panties (if she lives with you)

(13) On May 14, 2010 at 9:30 pm PORSHE911 [0] said:

Having being on both sides of this in my life I will say that sometimes you can catch them and sometimes you can not. Some people don't show signs, some do.

For the most part here are some signs...

1. A person who knows what buttons to push will (when confronted) say something that makes you lose control and spin your wheels during an argument. Giving them the opportunity and power to become a martyr in the situation and make you feel bad about even confronting then. In layman's terms, "flipping the script".

2. The cheater may crank up their sex life with you because good sex blinds people to see the bad. Or if the cheater is not so sophisticated they will simply have less sex because they are getting it somewhere else and don't realize how transparent they are becoming.

3. An unsophisticated cheater will leave a trail (phones, credit card transactions, etc) a sophisticated cheater will lead an entire double life with fake name(s), pre-paid disposable cell phones, fake life story background and career. They will not appear to be into the latest Blackberry, iPhone, or gadget. They will not write down phone numbers. Honestly a sophisticated cheater has little to no conscience.

4. Someone who feels guilty and remorseful about cheating may become more emotionally closer to you after the acts and spend more time with you being cuddled up because they know they are wrong, feel it, and know that they don't want to ever lose you. So in that "realization that the grass is not greener on the other side" moment they do things to show that they appreciate you more. This is rather brief until they fall back into their usual routine.

In short a sophisticated cheater will more times than not appear closer to you than ever before and you will feel great. But it's not real. They will rarely cheat with someone in the same city and if they are good they are cheating with someone who is spending the money and/or only one night stands with NO EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT towards the other man/woman.

An unsophisticated cheater is typically visually the unabashed beacon of self centerd-ness and usually doesn't really think through how they appear to the person getting cheated on. They act on how they feel and write things off as "oh baby I'm just not up for it tonight, I'm tired", "oh she's crazy" or "I was drunk and stayed over a friends house".

The reality is women make better cheaters because in my experience they think about the psychology behind emotions more than men and more importantly, it is generally accepted that women will snoop, prod, ask insecurity based questions, sneak around and "TEST" the relationship, while us men suppose to be strong, confident in our selves, unwavering, not constantly discussing their feeling. So it's MUCH more easy to munipulate that system. Men who can lead a double life will display less signs. Men who can't do that more than often get caught easily if a woman snoops.

(12) On April 25, 2010 at 12:41 pm 2chakra [0] said:

Question

My wife confides in a friend of ours with all of her secrets. I have proof of this as they have both discussed with me secrets which my wife has told her in the past. This friend, confides in her sister a lot and talks to her about most everything. This friends sister who she confides in is also my friend, and recently told me that my wife has either seen or has been seeing my friend of many years (now a mutual friend of my wife and I). I suspected that this has happened for some time now. I do not have solid evidence, other than the fact that my wife had told her friend that she did (but did not tell her sister all of the details, etc) so she didnt have a lot of information to give me other than what I have already mentioned. So, my wife and I have had some relationship problems for a few years now, none of which included infideliity that I knew of. Just the rigors of middle aged life (late thirties), being married for a long time, stresses of works and commutes, stresses of kids, etc. The bottom line is, I love my wife, do not want to leave her. I understand how it is to have things missing in your relationship, emotionally, physically, etc that make you feel like having some type of relationship outside of the marriage, so I believe that I can forgive, and understand how those stresses play on a marriage and how someone can give in to those. One thing is for sure however, and that is I bellieve that you need to have complete and open honesty in a marriage, on both sides, and if you truly love someone, you can tell the truth, deal with the remaining issues and as long as history is not repeated you can move forward in a better light, with both parties learning from mistakes which might have contributed to this. So, with that said, I have a decision to make. Do I confront her with evidence of what I was told? And destroy the relationship of my friend and her sister for telling me? Do I confront my friend tell him that I forgive him as long as he comes clean with the truth and details and ends anything that is going on if anything currently (He is not the type to have a permanent relationship with any woman so I really do not fear that as an issue, I believe if anything, that she would do this to get back at me for her frustrations or to try something new and different). My wife has stated that regardless ofour frusterations with each other and our fights, that she loves me, and our family and wants to work it out, however, whenever you try to talk to her about anything which she might have lied on (I just caught her in one), and etc, she just blows up ballistically utilizing that as a hiding/defense mechanism. I believe confronting my friend first would be the best bet. Trying to catch him at a time when he cannot contact my wife and warn her so that when I approach her with details that the element of surprise isnt gone (taking away time for making up excuses or stories). Any offers of suggestion/experience would be greatly appreciated. My desire is to confront the truth, have us both learn from our mistakes and move forward. I love her, and I love my family. Thank you

(11) On April 15, 2010 at 8:00 pm Sosome [0] said:

you can tell when your mate is cheating sometimes you can and sometimes you cant be we females as whell as males always get that thought in the back of our minds..1.if your man/woman pattern change like their always been loveing and caring towards you certian things that the use to do that they dont do anymore you should look into that it starts with the sudden changes 2.communication he or she is not really comunicated with you when you are use to havein a good communication with each other 3.time when your man or female is not spending much time with you and not really makein any efort to spend anytime and just always busy hangein out and always at work thats not all hes doing..you have to get to know your mate things he do things he dont do what he likes what he doesnt like and as soon as he starts acting differnt or his patterns change you should look into

(10) On April 7, 2010 at 4:35 pm Lipglossgirl [1] said:

Look at the signs!!!! Does he:

1-Never show up for dinner

2-Never say I love you

3-Says he's either going our for work or to go shopping????

(9) On March 28, 2010 at 2:19 am Mgodat [63] said:

There are lots of ways we can tell if our spouse is having an affair;

1-His cell phone is always with him

2-he always stay uses his computer and turn it off if your passing through.

3- He takes a shower at least twice a day,esp. at night when he comes home.

4- always makes sure that he looks good and wearing cologne when he goes to work.

5- he have this look on his face like being in love.

6- working early and working late

7- he will lie if you ask him a question.

8- if he eats with his family, he always the first one to finish and excuse himself for some things to do.

(8) On February 24, 2010 at 3:23 am Hey0126 [0] said:

so what i see go up to him/ her and say on your phone there was a girl/guy and he said meet me at..... and i cant wait to see you or something like that, tell him that you didnt get the name but he/ she cant wait to see you at her/his house or something. that stuff above is nothing this is great stuff. this is how i found out that my bf was sleeping with someone and its great. i think that you should use it. ihope its good.

~me

(7) On February 16, 2010 at 8:26 pm Lizzpacxxx [0] said:

- if they dont let you see there cellphone

-they erase their inbox and outbox

-they start paying less attention to you

- they dont call you as much

- coming home late

-leaving earlier than usual

-erase there call log

-dont want to have sex with you as much anymore

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