What are the signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you?

(16) On April 25, 2011 at 10:03 pm Spongiee [0] said:

I have a really bad gut feeling about it.

This has never happened before, and I really love him. If i break up with him i dont think we could ever be friends..

He cheated on his girlfriend with me, but i didnt touch him he did all of it and i tried to get him out of it but it didnt work. Then he broke up with her, and went to another girl. He went out with her for like 2 days then dumped her for me. I felt really bad for her and i was going to tell him no, but I did love him, I just didn't want to leave him there because then things wouldn't be the same. So how would I not think hes cheating on me with another girl when he did it to the one's in the past? I just can't live like this... but I have a feeling he isn't, im just having major mixed emotions...

(15) On April 25, 2011 at 9:58 pm Spongiee [0] said:

Mine is calling other girls babe and winking ... well one girl in perticular.. and im mad and a little sad cause i trusted him. I still do I just don't think he's telling the whole truth to me. You'd think he would, Im his girlfriend after all. :'[

But screw me right? :(

(14) On October 28, 2009 at 9:29 pm KandiSweets [0] said:

Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together for 10 Months, in May he had to go to his dads in another state, a few weeks ago he was calling me and texting me and wouldnt leave me alone so that he could make sure i was safe and stuff, And then for the Past 3 or 4 Weks he Doesnt call me or Text me. He works from 3 til 7 or Sometimes 8 he will not call me until 10 or 11 at night. he has been arrogant and making me feel bad. he is even dressing Kind of Different. i Dont Know What to do. he has never tried to hide things from me but lately he has been distant and quiet when we talk he comes back in December and i Dont know if i Want to be with him anymore because of this situation..

(13) On April 21, 2009 at 5:40 am Yrachal19 [0] said:

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(12) On January 17, 2009 at 8:11 pm Dionne3girls [0] said:

My boyfriend has started a new "friendship" with some singer in a band. I intially found sexy pictures of her in his phone and when I asked him about them, he said that she was his friends friend. I called her and she said she wasn't anything to anybody. So a week or so later I found text that he sent to her explaining to her why he did't come to her show, and apologizing for taking so long to get back to her, and also telling her how much he liked the pics and can she send him more, he also sent her text saying that he was having problems getting through to me that it was nothing with them. When I asked him this time he refused to talk about it and he said that it was a "work" relationship. We have not had sex in a month, this was before I found the pics and his excuse was he doesn't feel like he deserves sex, cause he is out of work. I'm no fool, but he keeps telling me that I am insecure, and I am begining to wonder if I am. My thought is that if it's just a friend, or work related, (might I add that he is an electrician and she sings in a band)why won't he let me met her? His story sounds like a lie and now he refuses to discuss this with me. I have a problem with this and I'm wondering is it me, or is it more thens he says it is.

(11) On January 9, 2009 at 3:33 pm Stefandenee [0] said:

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. When we first got together it was great! He would come and see me when he got off of work for lunch, come pick me up so we could watch movies at his house, and then take me home so I could go to school the next day. We've broken up 3 times already, we just recently got back together, and now he's joining the Army. I will admit that I probably was the cause of the break ups. I've been cheated on before, and sometimes you just can't help it. A couple days before he left to Fort Hood, I got onto his myspace. I saw messages from 2 different girls. And of course, my adrenaline went crazy. I read one, and found out that he was asking her for nude pictures...that's no bueno. The second from the other girl, which he's told me about as the girl that has a penis. When I read the message I found out that he sent "him" a picture of his penis. Very disturbing, and again No Bueno! I confronted him about this. He said that him asking girl #1. for nudes is no big deal. Just like looking at porn. But no...it is a pretty big deal. When I asked about "man" #2. he said that he had no idea what I was talking about, and that there were different conversations going on..what the hell does that mean?? Yet of course, I caught him in a lie. I won't go into details you probably don't wanna hear it, but somewhere in that message the "man" said something about any girl being lucky..my boyfriend said that they were talking about me..Well if you have no idea what "he's" talking about...then how do you know it was about me??..He was living with me at the time. I kicked him out, he came crawling back, and we are still together. I deleted his myspace, and mine as well. I still check his email every now and then, whenever I get that gut feeling.

Here are some key things to look for when he's lying.

1. Eye contact- if he doesn't look you in the eye, or looks from left to right. It's a lie.

2. Hand movement- If he just leaves his hands to the side, he doesn't want to let you in. It's a lie.

3. The Chin Rub- if he rubs his chin every now and then, or just constantly, when he's speaking he doesn't want to tell you anything. This is what I like to call "The Cheater Rub".

But don't jump to conclusions. Some girls are just paranoid when they're been cheated on one too many times.

(10) On December 26, 2008 at 7:10 pm Intergra [0] said:

i was cheated on by my bf of 2 years about a year ago now,and it severly messed me up,i left my hometown and moved away to deal with it.

But the thing was we were perfect for each other we never argued never disagreed had our own friends and would finish each others sentances,then he started work in a bar,and this girl who i knew became very very flirtatious,and the only way i found out was because he never turned up to mine one morning and used the exscuse he stayed at his friends the night before and was now on the way home. i had to make him swear on his mums life that he wasnt cheating he couldnt do it obviously,but this girl was texting him every day,offering him all sorts of things.

But after 9 months of him on the phone to me constantly begging me to come back i moved back home and am now living with him and am very happy of course i have my doubts every now and again but i do trust him i have learned to trust him.

But the point is,its not just the boyfriends fault, it does take to tango,its just as much the females fault for tempting him,as it for the boyfriend to accept and go ahead.

(9) On December 23, 2008 at 12:41 am Biancaboo [0] said:

I am the 19 year old that posted about her boyfriend going with friends without her and texting his ex then turning it and blaming it on her for texting him .. i still have not found out for sure if hes cheating and i still have this gut feeling he is .. Should i really trust it ??

(8) On July 20, 2008 at 5:47 am Kiss098 [0] said:

There really is no way to ever know if your boyfriend is cheating on you... there are obvious signs that can lead you on but sometimes they aren't what you think. If you catch him doing it, there is your proof. I just wanted to give advice to some girl who was talking about her boyfriend being 15, shes 16 and some girl she thinks hes cheating on her with is 14.

First of all, most guys are horniest at this age, because they aren't quite men yet and they want to get experience. If you found pictures of that girl on his computer in her underwear, obviously hes into them. Why are you still with him? Sure you love him but sweetheart, he is a boy. A little boy. He's not going to marry you, those aren't even thoughts of his. I say you get rid of him immediatly and find a boyfriend whose a little bit older than you... I'm 16 and I've never dated a guy under 18. That doesn't mean you should go for way older guys, but they're more mature...but be aware that they are just as capable of cheating as any guy is!!

(7) On June 17, 2008 at 6:56 am Catiemarie1992 [0] said:

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(6) On June 16, 2008 at 1:15 am IKk.answ [17] said:

HI THERE.

ACCORDING TO SAM IN BEWITCH -- WHEN HE COUGHT A LIPSTICK STAIN ON DERWOOD'S COLOR -- IT IS I THINK THAT THE SECRETARY IS FRESH OR HE DRIVES A NICE AUTOMOBILE THAT WOMEN NOTICES IT

MEN I THINK DOES NOT REALLY INTEND TO CHEAT

IT IS I THINK IN THEIR GENES -- IT IS LIKE -- THEY TRY NOT TO CHEAT -- BUT THEN BE BETTER THE WIFE MAKES A GOOD HOME -- THE HARDER FOR THEM TO CHEAT

THE SIGNS THAT A MAN MAY BE CHEATING -- IS NOT THAT HE DOES NOT COME HOME EARLY -- IT IS WHEN HE COMES HOME EARLY FROM WORK -- SO THAT HE CAN GO TO WORK EARLY

ALSO THE SIGNS OF A MAN OR WOMAN CHEATING IS THAT -- THE WOMAN KEEP SECRETS FROM HER HUSBAND

AND THE MAN -- DOES NOT TALK MUCH -- ASIDE FROM KIDS AND IF MONEY IS OKAY IN HOUSEHOLD

BUT THERE ARE MEN THE CHEATS NOW A DAYS -- IT ONLY HAPPENS IN THE CELEBRITY WORLD

BUT THEN I THINK THAT THEY DO NOT MENT IT

THEY SAY HELLO -- TO ANOTHER CELEBRITY -- THEN ANOTHER CELEBRITY SAY HELLO TO THEM -- THEN THE NEXT -- THEY ARE BEING TALKED OF FOOLING AROUND -- ALTHOUGH THEY ARE NOT

THEN THAT LEADS TO MORE GOSSIP AND THEN THE MEDIA WILL NEXT HEAR THEM SAYING -- THEY ARE GETTING A DIVORCE -- OR ONE IS NOT COMING HOME AT NIGHT

SOME CELEBRITIES LIKE TO STAY QUIET AND STAY OUT OF THE LIME LIGHTS -- BUT THEY DO HAVE TO MAKE APPEARANCES -- AND SOMETIMES -- THEY ARE TALKED AND GOSSIP A LOT -- AND THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN HEAR IT IS THROUGH THE MEDIA

THE MEDIA DOES NOT REALLY MAN IT -- IT IS BREAD AND BUTTER FOR THEM -- THAT IS THE ONLY JOB LINE THEY DO -- AND SO PERHAPS THEY TOO -- STAY QUIET AND STAY AWAY FROM CROWDS FOR FEAR OF TALKING TOO MUCH -- BUT THAT IS HOW USUALLY THEY MAKE THEIR STORIES -- BY GOING WHERE THE CELEBRITIES GO -- AND THE LIKE PRODUCERS OR PUBLICITIES PEOPLE -- USUALLY LET THE TELL THE MEDIA

DO NOT BE CONFUSED WITH A PUBLIC RELATION TO A PUBLICITIES PEOPLE

NEWSPAPER CALLS IT AD

MAGAZINES CALL IT FORUM

BUSINESSES CALL IT PR

MOVIE MAKERS CALLS IT PUBLICITIES

WHAT DO YOU CALL IT?

GOOD LUCK

KATHY O. PROKOP

KPOP

(5) On November 4, 2007 at 6:34 pm WakeShinigami [0] said:

I'm a guy, so I'm kind of on the defensive end here, but these types of questions do work both ways. I have never cheated on someone I have been dating, and have been cheated on. Still, here are some things to keep in mind.

-Some people are just possessive. It's not just you, he may be possessive about everything. Also, one tends to hold a love life close to home, therefore, making the person more possessive and suspicious.

-NEVER find fault in someone saying that they love you. If you must question it, don't look at what was said, but how or when it was said. Random acts of expressing affection should not be grounds for a firing squad.

-If you significant other asks what's wrong all of the time, it could be that he thinks you look upset all of the time. I used to ask my ex this all of the time due to the look on her face, but I was never cheating on her (later come to find out that she was upset that I was too clingy. *sigh*)

-Hanging with friends, even ex-girlfriends, may very well be innocent. I'm still friends with both of my last two ex-es, but I also know that the relationships over. One can have a "good" breakup. As long as the person is open and honest about who they were with and what they were doing, most likely there isn't something going on.

-Changes in sex life happen. Ask any happily married couple, or any couple who have been together a long time. It may go through downs, ups, or shifts, but that does not mean that their is something going on behind your back. Just because he's not having sex with you, or wanting something different, does not mean he's having sex with someone else.

Basically, trust your instincts, but question them as well. Instincts are excellent for tipping you off, but then try to look for proof. Once you feel like you have evidence supporting your intuition, confront him with it. Just ask if he's cheating on you; if he says he isn't, bring out what you've found. Then judge his honesty on his reaction.

If you think he's cheating on you from his reaction, it may be time to call it quits--not because he is cheating on him, but because you don't trust that he isn't. If he hasn't been cheating on you, then he's going to probably be better off without you if you feel this certain that he's not being faithful, and you'll be better off because you won't have to deal with the stress of thinking he is.

(4) On August 6, 2007 at 1:10 am Izzabell [9] said:

on the home page where it says "Hii girls. im going to tell you not to be paranoid about your boyfriend cheating on you." and its got all the answers and what ever well i have to say that its not all true... the girl who wrote it and answered the question CLEARLY has never been cheated on... and NO its not nessaserily a girls fault if there bf cheats on them most guys that cheat do it to make them selves feel good when really himself his gf and everone else noes he's a worthless lying cheating peice of s#!t. my boyfriend has pissed me off more than anyone could imagen he drove my 30,000 dollar car into a tree and i didnt cheat on him therefor pissing your boyfriend off gives himNO EXCUSE WHAT SO EVER to cheat. so girl (who answered the questions on the home page) when u get cheated on i am 1000% sure you will change every single word you have written on that home page. my boyfriend at the moment has done every single thing and came up with every single dumb ass excuse to make me think hes being a good boy and every time he does what he's says hes doin i get a phone call or a vist from some that night/day or the next day telling me what he was really doing. ive seen photos and vidieos. ive split my knuckles open 4 times ive been on assult charges for hitting him and the girls hes been with. and yes im stupid for still being with him but thats not the point! the point is if u think your boyfriend is cheating on you dont read that stupid home page becoz its full of s#!t. listen to your head and listen to you heart. and when ur friends tell u ur boyfrined is cheating 99.9% of the time there not doing it to break you up there doing it becoz it has been seen take the time to go threw his phone notice if theres any change in how he's being towards u if he's distant, if he's all ways msg ppl watch him after he sends a msg if he looks at you a bit weird or lyke hes done some thing wrong take his phone and look threw it b4 he has tyme to delete it. this is comeing from some one who CAN tell u and who has been threw it first hand ten times, weather or not u should be worried. and one moer thing if he is accusing u for cheating and your not tell him to take take a good look at what hes doing tell him u no something and see if the gets scared or not if he is theres your answer!

(3) On October 25, 2006 at 2:35 pm 12.14.64.98 said:

I was the one who contributed an answer to this question. I was the one whose live-in boyfriend was going out at 7pm and coming back home at 6am the next day and taking Cialis. I just want to say that I have left him since posting an answer and I've never been happier, my life has gotten so much better now that I've gotten that monkey off my back forever!!!

(2) On July 11, 2006 at 2:37 pm 71.19.35.234 said:

What if the girl your boyfriend is hanging out with is someone you dont like just because the way they seem around you and him?

(1) On July 11, 2006 at 2:36 pm 71.19.35.234 said:

How do women of any age know there boyfriend is cheating even if he says if you trust me there should be no worries?

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