What should you do if you caught your teenage son or daughter wearing diapers even though they don't wet the bed?

(20) On January 21, 2012 at 3:33 pm Benb34 [0] said:

I also have a blatter problem and wet my bed but im to scared to admit it. how do i get diapers??

(19) On January 21, 2012 at 3:31 pm Benb34 [0] said:

Im 14 and the past 2 years iv gotten into diapers and girls cloths,no im not gay. These things just make me fill better but im so scared to tell my mom and dad because i know what they will tay to me. Anyone have any suggestions? plz

(18) On July 18, 2011 at 9:57 am DJCake2013 [0] said:

here is a website that is a meeting ground for people all like that of any age http://www.yobrepaid.com/ i have found it has helped my parents to cope with this fact about my life, there are more like you child than you think.

(17) On January 5, 2011 at 2:47 am Alex85070 [0] said:

listen when i started wearing diapers i was 11 years old thats when my diaper fetish started. my parents caught me atleast 9 times in the past 5 years and grounded me for it. i thought it was stupid and not controlled well either. there is nothing wrong wearing diapers and if your son or even your duaghter wants to wear them let them let them buy there diaper and let them be happy. there not the only ones in the world that wears i know im the only one that wears diapers but at the same time no one should make fun of tehm either.

let them wear them if they want to. now if you get the idea to treat them like a baby you should ask them. now they may say yes or no. but if they yes dont treat them baby 24/7 treat them like one every once in a while. if they say no tehn dont do it. but it doesnt let them do it because it doesnt harm anyone

(16) On November 21, 2010 at 2:49 pm Ninjadiper [0] said:

im am 13 and still wear goodnights i sometimes wet the bed but i usualy wear them outside my bed. i guess it just makes me feal good. and i belive diperboy67 because if my mom or dad did that it would rock my world.

(15) On October 27, 2010 at 2:10 pm Suezy777 [0] said:

I know someone who is very close to me. He told me that he feels like he wants to wear diapers and he said he is no pedafile its just when he was younger as a baby, everyone loved him and treated him with so much love. As he got older, his family treated him unfairly and meanly. He feels as though if he wears diapers he is safe and secure and he feels better about himself. there is nothing wrong with it. It hurts noone, and he is just as normal as the next guy. Im glad he explained it to me.I accepted him with open arms, because I can see where he is coming from. When your a baby you get so much love and attention, and when you get older, he gets no love and feels the only time he was loved was when he was a baby. To all those people downing it, Im sure you have fetishes that your ashamed to tell. So give it a rest and if it doesnt pertain to you, then keeps your two cents to yourself. thank you and have a nice day.

(14) On May 31, 2010 at 10:21 am Calderone [2] said:

It is no big deal. Why would anyone who is not wearing them care?

Women wear mens' t-shirts, does anyone bother them?

(13) On May 25, 2010 at 4:36 pm Bro99 [0] said:

treat them like a baby

(12) On May 11, 2010 at 4:56 pm Bro99 [0] said:

i agree with ever one

(11) On February 24, 2010 at 12:24 am Nobody special [0] said:

and i was looking at one of the responses that said "if it was my teen daughter i would take away her regular underwear and make her wear diapers and plastic pants24/7 and treat her like a baby." and if my mom did that to me i would be so embarrassed

(10) On February 24, 2010 at 12:15 am Nobody special [0] said:

even so i dont want to tell anywho and i cant go there alone without my parents knowing-and someone else said its ok as long as know one finds out but idk

(9) On February 24, 2010 at 12:00 am Rybit [1] said:

@Nobody special

Seek help. See a psychologist about your behavior, those who say that 'psychologists can't do anything' didn't want the treatment in the first place and were not willing to work with the psychologist.

(8) On February 23, 2010 at 11:07 pm Nobody special [0] said:

i am 16 and love to wear diapers and i dont know why they just make me feel really good but i dont want my parents knowing and it would kill me if they new or any of my friends and if they treated me like a baby!-what do i do!??!?!

(7) On February 6, 2010 at 2:54 am Rybit [1] said:

Hey,

Through experience of being in a relationship with someone with this diaper issue, I can say that I find it extremely strange. I was very annoyed at the time when I found out about his issue because we had been together for 3 years and suddenly I found out that he likes to wear diapers which are for incontinence.

I was hurt that he didn't tell me earlier on in the relationship because I had opened myself up to him and had built up my perception of his personality and drives in life. I was in love with him for what I thought I knew. When I found out about his diaper issue, my respect and perception of the love of my life was shattered. All I could think was that he wasn't a real man in my eyes anymore, he was not a provider, I was thinking that he had mental problems because diapers are for people who cannot control their bodily functions.

Then I thought, 'what about our children?'. We had planned to move in together, and get married and have children. I thought about how I don't want my children to be exposed to that, I don't want them to know about that or see that, it could screw up my children if they ever find out (which they probably would). He said that he wouldn't tell them etc... but you know what? I don't want to keep secrets from my family, especially from my children when I have them.

He has stopped wearing diapers to keep me in his life, and I am trying to move on from it, because I love him for many other reasons which is keeping our relationship alive, but it's going to take time for me see him as I saw him before as a provider, independent and a brave man.

So my message to parents with teenagers who wear diapers, the issue will probably just fester if you don't act upon it. I don't care if people are saying that there is nothing wrong with it - there is. It affects who they will marry, it will affect their relationships in life and will turn into a long-term problem if you don't act upon it.

You can say as much as you like until you are blue in the face that it's not accepted because it's a faux pas in society. There is a damn good reason it is a faux pas in society, because the diapers are for people with incontinence and most people won't stop and support their partners if they find out about this issue. I'm sorry but you have to look at the realistic, long-term effects of the issue. It is not normal, because it should not be needed or occur.

(6) On June 18, 2009 at 11:24 pm Sharpie951 [1] said:

Hello, I'm a 17 year old boy who is into this "fetish". If it comes to the point to where you're a parent and you find your son/daughter wearing/using diapers or diaper-like products, sit down with him/her and talk. discuss and try to understand why he/she likes wearing them. When my parents found out, I was 14 years old and they talked with me about it. The best explanation I can come up with is: wearing diapers as a fetish or other means of enjoyment is no different from other people having foot fetishes or other fetishes of any nature. most fetishes cause no harm to anyone and it's just a way to feel more relaxed and such. From my personal opinion, most TB or DL's (teen baby, diaper lover) would love to have their parents buy diapers for them and pay somewhat of a baby like attention to them. not all out, give them the same freedoms they had before, but just play along with it. Like Diaperboy67 said, it would "rock their world". my parents decided to let me continue my fetish as if they never discovered it. they knew about it obviously, but they decided not to hinder or help my fetish, that way, I could continue to live my life normally. I wouldn't mind if they started buying them for me and treated me like a baby now and again, but all things considered, I am very happy with how things turned out. so please, if you discover your child wearing diapers for fun, please do not hinder or harm their fetish in any way, chances are they will receive more harm than good from that.

If you have any questions from personal experience, my email address is: webninja13@yahoo.com

Feel free to ask me anything, I'll be more than happy to answer any question.

(5) On May 31, 2009 at 4:34 pm Diaperboy67 [0] said:

belive me treat him like a baby and give him diapers its will rock his world. really!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(4) On May 31, 2009 at 4:31 pm Diaperboy67 [0] said:

hi im 13 years old and im wearing the pull ups diapers. and im still like heavy metal music and im still a normal kid. diapers make me feel beter. maybe all of the parents will think its odd but they know its only a diaper. well its not true! (in the good way) diapers rock my world! just know that if u buy your kid diapers (if he is an diper lover) its really rock his world! u cant understand and your kid cant tell u how its really feels like. i know that what i write is looking really really odd and difrent this is how i feel. i dont look at diaper fetish an the bad way i look it on the good way and its makes me happy. and again i kno its odd but its really how i feel.

(3) On February 8, 2009 at 2:22 am Catholicgirl [9] said:

if it was my teen daughter i would take away her regular underwear and make her wear diapers and plastic pants24/7 and treat her like a baby.

(2) On November 13, 2008 at 4:31 pm Catholicgirl [9] said:

we adopted a 14 year old daughter from ireland last august and she has taken on the roll of new baby in the family.she was wearing diapers in the orphange because of wetting problems and still is not fully developed.she is starting over and we have her now in cloth diapers and rubber pants.she sleeps in a baby crib and uses a pacifier and bottle.she has regular diaper changes when she is wet and wears baby type dresses.at bed time she lays in her crib while i put a thick cloth diaper on her then a pair of cute rubber pants.then an under shirt and a blanket sleeper.she has a bottle then goes to sleep.we just baptized her in sept as a regular infant and dressed her in a white gown,bonnet,lace anklets and booties.we put rhumba rubberpants on her over her diaper and she looked cute and very baby like.

(1) On August 15, 2006 at 7:23 pm Mdavids15 [35] said:

What is the big deal. Ok, chances are he will NOT be into diapers when he is an adult. Teens get into crazy things. They like doing things we think are a little strange. I would just say let him do his thing. He will probably dislike it soon anyways. If you tell him that he wants to wear diapers, he will have to buy them himself, which then he will not have as much money to buy something long lasting and rememberable. Just go along with it and don't make him/her uptight because then you could send them into a world where they want to wear diapers and be like a baby so you will love them more.

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