Discussion on 'What should you do if your son likes to wear girl's ...?'

(33) On February 24, 2008 at 5:27 pm Unknown-gender [0] said:

im 10 and i dont know if i should wear girls clothes. it look fun and people say it feels good. what should i do?

(32) On December 16, 2007 at 01:10 am Xgmx [0] said:

Oh I just read some of your other comments, you people are funny, just whatever you do, don't think of it as comfortable, sure it might be funny and comfortable, but if you think they are better than boxers or underwear, you might become a transvestite, and not even know it!

(31) On December 16, 2007 at 01:05 am Xgmx [0] said:

I think its ok for boys to wear womens clothes (if their under the age of 18), because they are just kidding around and wondering what they feel like to wear. Once your 18 and you wear women's clothes, it might be a problem since, then you are an adult and a transvestite. Teens may feel a slight discomfort wearing women's clothing since a thong would...well...hurt very bad. I am 15, I think a thong would hurt most normal boys.

(30) On September 09, 2007 at 3:20 pm Thongboy [9] said:

i love to wear thongs. i started wearing my mums and they felt soooo sexy. i wear them for comfort and pleasure and i have started wearing just them to sleep in the hope my family will discover me cos i am too sacred to tell them.

i also want to show them at school cos it might help me get a gf but i am too scared. should i?

(29) On September 03, 2007 at 1:24 pm Hottie111 [3] said:

oh one thing i forgot to mention in the last post was i was caught once and punished. My punishment is still going it is a one year punishment thing. My punishment is that i go to a clothing store every sunday and try on womens clothes with my mom and on the last week which starts today she said i have to buy a couple of outfits to wear for a entire week and then my punishment is over.(only at home of course sister is at Dad's that is why this is my punishment and we are talking girlie voice leasons (mostly for me). So my mom made me pay for doing something I liked but now i dont want to do it but i cant stop. o and one ay she bought a hawiian dress and tights and heels to wear in the house when i feel asleep after taking meds she to me to the park and it was real windy and there were other boys and girls my age there laughing at i felt so ashamed. My mom now says if u want i will buy ur own clothes

(28) On September 03, 2007 at 1:08 pm Hottie111 [3] said:

I am 14 and i have secretly been crossdressing sence i was in the third grade (age 7-8). No one in my family knows my sister caught me in her dance tutu and told my mom but i lied my way out. I think my mom might have some idea that i do but she has kept quite. It started whe i got bored so went shopping with my mom and asked what makes girl clothes girl clothes. My mom was trying to explain but didnt know how so she took me to the changing room and had me put on a girlie outfit i said these are not clothes i will wear mom so why am i trying them on. Then my mom said these are girls clothes u what to know the difference so here is your answer. I like it alot i just couldnt tell my mom though i was to ashamed of it. So from that day on I have been wearing my mom's and sister's clothes secretly.

(27) On August 31, 2007 at 6:22 pm DHYohko [9] said:

I am 21 and i love wearing femenine lengerie. i feel different and free when i do. right now i'm wearing a pink saring teddy wich i jsut got in the mail and i'm loving it. i don't think my family knows but my moem may have suspected for a while. i've been doing it since i was 15 when i got curious one day. it's just that femenien lengerie is so soft and smooth and a lot more confortable that men's unerwear. i still havn't worn any outide of my apartment but i will one day.

(26) On August 28, 2007 at 02:33 am 16pat [2] said:

I am 16 I like to wear my sisters painties,thongs and bras i love the way they feel i wear them all the time, even to school one time my thong strap was hangin out at school and a girl saw it and laughed at me.I dont think anyone in my family noes that I do it i wish i could tell them, what should I do?

(25) On August 14, 2007 at 10:00 pm NancyAnn [10] said:

I'm a mother of two younger girls and an older boy. Eddie doesn't like to wear girl's clothes, but we make him play dress up anyways. We like to tease him alot. I don't think that this is harmful to him, After all, he still doesn't like to wear girl's clothes. So he's not going to become a transvestite. What's the harm in us girls having a little fun with him?

(24) On August 14, 2007 at 04:16 am 11kyle [5] said:

hello, im 12 yers old and i crossdress when mom,dad, and bro is not home, i c/d just for humor and the feel, my parents i dont think no i do. but in 2006 i went halloweening as an (old) lady, i had to be old just so my dad didnt get mad. he did anyway. so i want to tell people but im scared of the reaction cuz all i have is a mom and dad and bro force me peer preusely into hiding it. i am totally strait and have a girlfriend, i play football and wrestle, i need an answer

(23) On July 20, 2007 at 2:13 pm Nkknkn [14] said:

i caught my son dressing in my clothes and his sisters clothes so i made him wear a short see threw dress with with matching pink and black polka dot bra and panties and he had to do everything in it and this one day it was very windy outside so we went to the park and every time a gust of wind would come the dress would come up and it was so funny!!! luv super mom

(22) On July 08, 2007 at 1:33 pm Dantheman15 [2] said:

I'm a 15 year old male, and have been wearing my sisters underwear since i was 12.. I do not find it arousing in any way, i do it for comfort, although it isnt that comfortable in wearin them during sports. I feel as if I'm being michevious, and want my own, but i dont have the courage to telll my mom the truth and to ashamed to tell my father, someone please give me some advice? thanks

(21) On July 04, 2007 at 03:46 am Brinxt [17] said:

im 12 years old i do crossdress when my mom is at work with her cloths i never told her and im afraid to tell her because one time at school me and my friends wr painting our nails with a black marker to try to look emo (im not emo anymore) and my mom saw me and really just blew up and got really mad and started to scrub it off so im really afraid that if i tell her that i do this shes just gonna get so mad but i really wanna as you say crossdress what should i do? =(

(20) On June 13, 2007 at 03:50 am DJDude [13] said:

["My son began "experimenting" with dressing in my underwear when he was around six or seven. Rather than call attention to it (thinking it would either shame him or make the desire stronger) I said nothing. Although I would notice regular "rearranging" of my lingerie drawer, I kept quiet... When he was about ten, I went into his bedroom to check on him and turn out his light. He was sound asleep when I went in. I noticed the lacy shoulder strap of one of my bras, peeking out from his covers. Peeling back the bedclothes, I discovered he was dressed in matuching thong panties and bra. He woke up and realized that he was "caught" wearing his mother's underwear. He began to cry and explain that he was sorry and would never do it again. I surprise him (and myself) when I sat down on his bed, held him in my arms and told him that it was perfectly fine to wear girl's clothes, at least as far as I was concerned. He was so relieved, he hugged me and asked if he could have his own bras and panties. I agreed... I have no reason to think that I made the wrong decision with him. He is a well-adjusted, beautiful son who I am proud to call my own. If I had tried to interfere with him feminine curiosity, I believe that I would have crushed an essential part of his spirit."]

Wow. I wish my mom was as awesome as you. See, I'm 16 and I crossdress sometimes. I started wearing my sister's underwear when I was probably 7 or 8. Though I don't believe my parents or my sister knows about this, I'm sure they have some idea what has been going on. I am ashamed to admit it, but I have been secretly wearing girl's underwear since, and I am 16 now. Of coarse, I don't wear them all the time, but when I do I feel ecstatic, refreshed, and mentally opened. I honestly believe that all males, young and old, should have their feminine side nurtured. I wish that I could dress as a girl and not be thought of as wrong or screwed-up, which is how my family feels about crossdressers. If my family accepted me and nurtured *my* feminine side, maybe I wouldn't be here, searching the net for stuff like this.

I guess what I'm saying is, if I had a son and he was caught wearing any type of women's clothes, I'd allow him to wear whatever he wanted. If a simple concept like clothing unlocks something so needed, no parent should deny that to their child.

(19) On March 29, 2007 at 08:11 am Laur r [17] said:

I just read all the responses from other crossdressers and their mothers - I couldn't go to sleep till I read each and every one. I've worn feminine undies on and off most of my life - I'm 52 now. I wish so much my mom and I were able to have bonded like so many of the "girls" who wrote. I told my wife before we married, but she's not too keen about me wearing my things - I do keep several panties and bras. She's seen me in them but pretty much discourages it thru her responses. Whenever I get the chance, I do like to sleep in a silky nightie and enjoy the soft, feminine feeling it gives me.

A couple of times I've completely shaved my legs in the winters and really, really loved the feeling. Unfortunately my wife won't go near me till it all grows out - she gets real upset over it. She doesn't often shave herself and that upsets me, but that is "different" to her and she doesn't think it important.

Life as a crossdress can be quite frustrating but that is what I am - I do not imagine for a second that any other upbringing would have made me want feminine things any less - in fact, if my youth had been less secretive, perhaps I would have been far less stressed in my lifetime than I have been and more able to focus on other important things, to be able fulfill my innermost feelings without being so damned secretive about one of the most powerful urges in my life. If only I could work this out more openly with my wife.

In the meantime, I content myself with frequent fantasies in my mind of dressing completely as a woman and expressing my innermost feminity. Life's not fair - woman have the full range of feminine to masculine expression these days, but men are still in a cage socially.

(18) On January 19, 2007 at 3:51 pm 209.179.168.55 said:

I'm a father to two daughters, one of whitch is really my son.My son has been wearing girls clothes since he was a toddler.He's now 12. Though his mom/my wife thinks its a problem, I tell her she needs to let him dress the way he likes and if shes going to treat his sister to shopping, he has every right to go with them. His sister age 15, enjoys prettending hes her younger sister. she does his hair, makeup, and nails all the time. Even though my wife disagrees, I nor his sister will let him leave his feminen side. I think he looks very cute, especially when his male friends or cousins come to sleep over and he's the only boy running around wearing his favorite babydoll nighty, little panties with ruffles and padded training bra. My wife has a fit seeing him like that and tells the boys to make fun of him, and call him sissy. It doesnt seem to bother him and he really loves the attention he gets from the boys, even if they are making fun of him. He even says when he's older he wants to have boobies like his sister and other girls so the boys will like him more and (thanks to his sister)just to get more looks he already wears tight jeans,short skirts, and short shorts. Sometimes I think are too short but if his sister can wear them than so can he. I let him be all the girl he wants to be and treat him as such. I tell my wife she should do the same and enjoy it because once he gets older he'll probably grow out of it and get into all the messes boys get into but untill then he's my little girl.

(17) On January 12, 2007 at 11:39 pm 24.149.162.29 said:

I have worn panties & flat knit stockings for 30 years.

Have a drawer full of panties the wife knows & doen not mind.

Love the feel of nylon.

(16) On January 03, 2007 at 4:42 pm 207.200.116.74 said:

I started to dress in Lingerie & sometimes my MOM dresses . 1 day she sat me down & ask me if i would like to have of my own . & she said yes me Pleaseeeeeeee . So she took me out Shopping the next day. She got me some Lingerie , Nylons , & Outfits . BUT I was only able to wear them at home . But I love that . I started when I was around 10 years old . I am in my 40's now & I still wear Lingerie & Outfits sometimes . She even show me how to do my face.

(15) On December 26, 2006 at 9:45 pm 212.6.32.3 said:

I wanted to say hi to every1.and i respect what every1 wants to do.I my self started feeling it from the age of 6.Still at the age of 22 i dont have the guts to tell my family.Probely i;m afraid i might give them a heart attack.You ppl are so lucky that u have your parents support.Most of the mothers that have answered there suggestions were open to it.i wish it was the same case with me.some ppl may call it wierd or sick.but i feel just my self and steady,relaxed.I am not what so ever gay,but ilike the girls clothing to wear.

Almost 4got Wishing you a happy Christmas and a new year.and may all your wishes becoome true.tk cr

(14) On December 04, 2006 at 9:36 pm Schnazola [1141] said:

"The dictating society is full of crap anyway!"

Yeah! Who cares about societal norms?! To hell with them! The fact that certain behavior has been rejected as bad by the vast majority of the world's societies means nothing whatsoever. Nothing at all! Don't let society dictate to you. Just do whatever feels good!

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