Why would your ex still sleep with you once in a while if he does not want to get back together?

(3) On May 3, 2011 at 4:08 pm Love-is-evol [0] said:

i was with my ex for 8mnths and i left him because his best freind told me that he told him he didnt love me anymore. i was thinking about HIS happieness and so i left him. i love him more then anything til this day even though we have been broken up for over a year. we still talk and hang out and do stuff... he tells me he cant love me and that he cant stand me but when we are together he is like the sweetest thing sometime. its hard to leave someone you love alone. i let him say and do things to me that i swore i would never stand for until now. im still having trouble getting over him because he tells me all the time when we see each other things just click. an we cant help it. me and him are a great example of what not to do im going to live my life stuck on him and wishing i hadnt left him . dont let it happen to you.

(2) On December 22, 2008 at 4:50 am Nettieschild [0] said:

I dumped my ex because he was a pompous self righteous ignoramus. I was actually doing well at ignoring him until one night I was bored and lonely and confessed that I was such. He sent me a text message stating what he would like to do with me so I went to his house. I decided it was a game and pretended that I was on a secret love affair, so I would meet him from time to time after he sent me his sexual text messages and have sex with him. Immediately afterward I would leave. He would even meet me at my house at 1 or 2 am for a quickie, leaving his children home alone. I realized that the reason I left him in the first place was because he was a callous idiot who put women and his penis before his children. He actually spent more time worrying about me than his own kids....

He was also a user who would borrow money from me and never pay it back. I have had the opportunity to release some sexual aggression and while I did have some moments wherein I really missed him and thought we could get back together they were all washed away when he sent me a picture of his penis with the caption "are you coming to see me?" That made me wake up because he let me know that not only did I not have any respect for my self neither did he. Oh and get this he claims he has a girlfriend. So if he is sleeping with his ex while he is in a relationship with someone else that does not make him a good choice for anyone. I am moving on. NO sense fooling around with him when someone else with true intentions is waiting....I am glad I dumped him the sex served its purpose and that' all

(1) On December 15, 2008 at 1:20 am Collecting stars [0] said:

My boyfriend and I recently broke up after living together for over 3 years. A few weeks after he moved out a he decided we should "see each other" meaning, sex with no strings attached. I foolishly played along for a week but each time he kept reminding me that this means nothing, it does not mean we are getting back together. Which means he's just using me until he finds someone else to fill the void. I realized (quickly thankfully) that I deserved better than that!! Why continue to be with someone if they don't want to be in a relationship with you? He's just stringing you along. don't do it.

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