It's really about gaining more confidence in yourself and the way you feel about you - when you feel and find that you will find that woman won't seem such a threat.
a number of different reasons: they could want someone else to do what they are doing so that they arent the only one. if they want someone else to be cool then they might have to get them to do...
As long as the two hands do not touch the ball at the same time or the palm of the hands never face up, resulting in a travel, or also known as a carry.