If you are talking about help from the state, then not exactly. The way it works is that if you obtain help from the state, the state gets to try to collect your child support to reimburse itself for what the state is paying you.
A childs mother must file a petition for child support in the local family court.
No
If you are the child's father then you really have little legal support to not support your child. Your child is legally entitled to your financial support.
no jesus has to do it
You can, but eventually the court will question what you are doing.
A child does not have to have the same last name as the biological father to receive child support from that father.
Get state support, they will require him to give financial assistance.
Welfare
Call your local Child Support Enforcment Office and report her. In most states it is illegal to receive child support for children whom do not live with you.
Yes. The mother must file for child support.
Request an enforcement action from child support enforcement.
You can't.