There are several things in play here: (1) If he goes to court to exercise his parental right, and he has never paid any child support, he he WILL be ordered to pay child support - probably going all the way back to when she was born. (2) If he is proven to be the child's father (DNA sample or his name is on the birth certificate) he WILL be awarded some kind of visitation rights. The court's will not deny a parent access to their own child. If you feel that you will be better represented with an attorney you should probably hire one. The feelings of the parents towards one another is totally irrelevant. The court has only one interest - the child.
Yes, reconciliation.Get a new lawyer. Trying to save costs on a child support issue is malpractice as far as I see it. Unless there is some reason you havent mentioned in the question, getting the father to pay child support is a no brainer for a good lawyer. I would not suggest reconciliation with someone who refuses to be responsible for his child.
Just go to the Child Support Enforcement Office and request it.
Write to the father, ask the advice of a qualified lawyer or WAIT!
Check listings for legal aid in your area which may offer reduced fee or pro bono services.
It depends on what you are trying to do.
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This question would be better addressed to your lawyer. Trying to handle this without a lawyer is very likely a grave mistake.
Only the mother has standing to learn that
It'll only affect you if you don't pay. If you pay on time, then it shouldn't be any problem.
Yes, it is the same as a bent warrant. However, if it is through child support, then talk to the Office of Child Support Enforcement in your area (i.e. the lawyer from the department that's trying to get one on you), and see if you can pay them something and get another chance. Your best bet is to pay what you owe.
to take from the office while trying to fight crime!!!