Do you restrain a abusive special needs child who's parent doesn't comply at all?

Answer 1

That's a tricky one. There's a thin line between protecting others and being accused of abuse yourself. I am a complying parent, because I know better than anyone that my special needs son can be very aggressive. I had to sign and give permission. However, if a parent doesn't sign, and you physically restrain/handle a child, it could be seen as physical abuse/mistreatment. And I wouldn't advise you do that unless the child is posing a danger to others and you have no option. I would, as a professional myself, request a meeting with the parents of this child. Make it as informal as possible. I would explain what we mean by "restraint". That its not a punishment, its a calming method. Even demonstrate. I'd explain that it is in her childs best interest, as if the child hits another child/member of staff then punishments inline with the settings behaviour policy would have to be inforced. And that the restraint would be used to help her child if he was to hurt himself. Please remember, a special needs child is much more vunerable than a child with no problems at all. The child's parents will be so protective of their child and won't be too happy to agree to someone restraining them. Therefore a face to face chat, fully explained, and sympathetic ear will be needed if you want to gain this parents compliance.