I do not believe you can MAKE a man do anything he does not want to do. Its just his nature to do what he wants and when he wants. If he is forced then most men regret the relationship in the first...
take it slow never kiss on a first dateafter dating a while and you know she really likes you lean in for the kiss and maybe she will take your offer
the best way is to talk in a caring voice and to touch her around her neck and work your way done .
UB40Its actually by Inner Circle.
In Irish it's "Ba mhaith liom a chur____ort"