Wow, this is a good question. I dont see why it would matter to the courts what your sexual preference is and I dont think you have to tell them that you are same sex partners. If you want to have the child be legally adopted under your name do so, this is risky, because, if you and your partner ever break up then you will be financially responsible for the child until age 18. Now, I know I dont know the situation but the child has two parents, biologically, and is blessed to have someone in their life like you that cares enough to consider this, but be cautious. Go down to the county court house where you live and ask at the front desk what department you need to go, I think it would be were marriage licenses would be, ask for adoption information and think about it.. Good luck.
I don't think you can. You either has to be single or married to adopt. Just living together is neither. if you are in a samesex relationship and has gone through partnership might be possible though.
Anyone can do anything they want to as long as they truly want it. No, in Islam having a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship is not allowed whether your a male or a female and whether the bf/gf is Muslim or not. If you have anymore questions regarding the matter, just ask and I'll be happy to answer them. i gree in islam having a boyfrnd or a grlfrnd is not allowd but today no youngr generation follows it .....so if a muslim girl personlly like a non muslim boy...then it is not allowd in islam.....u cannot marry him unless he accpts islam...:)