It depends on what society you are talking about. Some societies, especially Asian societies, are very family-focused, while others such as American societies tend to support more independence.
It depends on the family however, they do not esteem women to be of much worth and often have very little respect for them. Islam culture is not what I would call the "ideal" family lifestyle.
Love & affection towards all the family members
helping others when they are sick and tired,
taking lead during difficult period,
respecting elders, and having unity