because u get rewarded and make parents happy
YES, self help is the best help b'coz only u know what u want & no1 else.So better listen to yr heart & go likewise.
It means that you are the best person to solve your own problems.
NO
The general meaning of the proverb is that when it comes to solving your own problems, you are the best person to do that. The French have a equivalent proverb: Help yourself and God will help you.