Narcissism
Narcissism refers to a mental disorder which involves excessive admiration and love with one's self. It is also characterized by a need for admiration and attention from others as well as an exaggerated sense of self-importance.
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How can you tell if someone is a pathological liar?
Pathological liars - or "mythomaniacs" - may refer to those suffering from histrionic personality disorder or narcissistic...
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How can you recognize a narcissist?
(Note: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that can only be identified by a mental health professional who has...
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How do you deal with a narcissist?
Here is some advice: Being married to one, I find that the only way to deal with him is to make everything about him. If I...
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What are the traits of a narcissist?
Traits of a Narcissist Narcissistic traits include: being argumentative, arrogant conceited vain fretful frustrated/idle...
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What is the difference between a narcissist and a sociopath?
Narcissism, in modern psychology refers to an abnormal affection of one's own image or one's own personality. Narcissism is...
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Can children of narcissistic parents ever recover?
Narcissism is the personality trait of selfishness taken to an extreme level, and like any personality trait, it can be slowly...
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Are all narcissistics pathological liars?
Well, I'm sure all N's lie but not about EVERYTHING. I always thought my N was lying about things but somehow, it would be proven...
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Do narcissists play games with your feelings?
This depends on which definition of "narcissist" you were referring to. ------------------------ Extreme narcissism is...
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What should you do if you are married to a narcissist and you want to preserve the marriage?
I want to stay married to my narcissist and have gone through many leaps and bounds to improve the communication between us....
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What is the treatment for narcissists?
Before believing that there is no hope for treatment (as you easily could by reading a lot of misinformation on-line about...
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What is the definition of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
Narcissistic Personality DisorderPathological narcissism is a life-long pattern of traits and behaviours which signify...
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How do a narcissist and his mother interact?
The study of narcissism is a century old and the two scholarly debates central to its conception are still undecided. Is there...
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How dangerous is a narcissistic parent with joint custody?
If he is a true narcissist he hates children. The risk of abuse - physical, psychological, and even sexual - is considerable. My...
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How do you make sure a relationship with a narcissist is over?
You are not safe with a narcissist, so you need to make sure it is over. The longer you stay, the more likely your children will...
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Is narcissism misdiagnosed as bipolar disorder or autism?
AnswerThe manic phase of Bipolar I Disorder is often misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).Bipolar patients in...
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What factors lead someone to believe that another person has Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
I am married to a man whom I was separated from for 4 years. I betrayed me with my friends and a school teacher. I lost custody...
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Is self-centered possessiveness a narcissistic trait?
Possessiveness and self-centeredness are not the same thing. Inanimate objects serve as Sources of Narcissistic...
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What is the best way to get a narcissistic husband to agree to a divorce?
Unfortunately/fortunately, he does not have to agree. You can file for divorce on your own. However, planning for the eventuality...
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How do you handle a narcissist who wants revenge?
Unfortunately, I have had to deal with two narcissists in the past four years. I have found that they become completely powerless...
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Do narcissists hate women?
Hate is too strong a word as women go with Narcissists. They resent them as most are heterosexual and thus need them to an...
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Can a narcissist truly feel love for his children?
Can a narcissist truly feel love for his children? Indeed, it is not possible. Not in the way "normal" humans interpret the word...
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How long will a narcissist stay in somatic mode?
AnswerNarcissists are either cerebral or somatic. In other words, they either generate their narcissistic supply by applying...
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How can you defend yourself against your narcissistic parent's rage?
The narcissist is a binary human being: the carrot is the stick in his case. If he gets too close to someone emotionally, he...
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How does narcissism affect family members?
The closest adult family members feel dejected after interacting with the N. The N is an emotional 5 year old (other figures...
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Can you recognize a narcissist by his eyes?
When I met my NPD ex, he was persuing me very hard. In fact so hard that it was uncomfortable, but I was very young and didn't...
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What is the difference between NPD and other personality disorders?
The classification of Axis II personality disorders -- deeply ingrained, maladaptive, lifelong behavior patterns -- in the...
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What triggers 'spontaneous healing' of a narcissist?
AnswerNot sure about "spontaneous" healing, but this seems to be one of the very few articles on NPD out there with valuable...
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Can a narcissist ever be a true friend?
It depends if someone has traits or fully blown NPD. Generally speaking, no I don't think they can. Friendship is based on trust,...
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What do you do if you have a narcissistic sibling?
As often as we try to convice others of our narcissistic uncaring siblings there are always bad people out there waiting to use...
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Will a narcissistic father ever accept you?
Give up. Achieve closure. He doesn't deserve more than what you have already given him. The word "love" is understood by the...
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Is it normal for a narcissist to lie about things to the point where if the truth came out he'd lose everything and then live and act as if he is invincible and untouchable?
Yes. Most likely he will just act as if nothing is wrong. Sometimes they seem to just BELIEVE their own lies to a point where...
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Where can you find support groups or chats for narcissism?
Hi, You can participate in discussions about Abusive Relationships - click on these...
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What is the difference between healthy narcissism and pathological narcissism?
AnswerHealthy narcissism is self-love.What is the difference between self-love and narcissism and how does it affect the capacity...
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Can a narcissist be a good parent?
AnswerYour son is likely to encounter narcissists in his future. In a way, he will be better prepared to cope with them, more...
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How common is narcissism in males females children elderly and other groups?
As Dr. Sam rightfully states above aka NPD. However the question asked about N-ism and maybe the question was specifically about...
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Can you manipulate a narcissist?
I lived with my N for 6 months in HIS home. He told me I needed to move because someone else was moving in. I found a place of my...
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Are narcissists especially choosy about the physical appearance of their partners?
There is a great black comedy called "High Heels" with Jean Paul Belmondo and Mia Farrow, about a man who would seem to fit all...
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How often do narcissists marry other narcissists?
There are no statistics available. Very few narcissists are diagnosed as such because they often avoid therapy and detection...
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Is there a difference between straight and homosexual narcissists?
Narcissism knows no sexual orientation. Somewhere along the line, someone at WikiAnswers has turned "narcissism", a personality...
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Should you tell people about a narcissist's attempt to demean you?
Do not keep your abuse a secret. Secrecy is the abuser's weapon. If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends,...
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After a narcissist loses his narcissistic mother how does he cope?
Overweening, smothering, spoiling, overvaluing, and idolizing the child - are all forms of parental abuse. This is because, as...
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Do narcissists get worse or better as they get older?
The narcissist ages without mercy and without grace. His withered body and his overwrought mind betray him all at once. He stares...
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Should you share information about narcissism with your narcissistic partner?
The answer to that question is not simple. Each situation is different and requires a different and unique approach. I have...
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If a narcissist threatens your life will they follow through with it?
You should take his threats very seriously and act to defend yourself and to take all necessary precautions. Pathological...
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How does a narcissist react to an ex-partner's fame?
If the person found an alternative relationship in the intervening period, the flame is unlikely to be rekindled by your newfound...
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Can you be responsible for your spouse's narcissism?
The short answer is no. Narcissism is not caused in adulthood. There is nothing one adult can do to another adult that will cause...
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Why would a narcissist let you ignore him?
He probably wants to call and contact you but absolutely will not crumble and make the first move. I broke up with my N in...
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Are narcissists insane?
"Insanity" is not a medical - or even unequivocal - term. Personality disorders are an excellent example of the kaleidoscopic...
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Is there a difference between male and female narcissists?
In the manifestation of their narcissism, female and male narcissists, inevitably, do tend to differ. They emphasise different...
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How do you get a narcissist to leave you alone?
Be sure to maintain as much contact with your abuser as the courts, counsellors, mediators, guardians, or law enforcement...
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What would constitute a diagnosis of NPD in a psychological evaluation?
Responses that make the person sound too perfect.
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Does a narcissist ever forget an insult?
Yes, they forget insults, the ones they say to you. Answer Narcissists are often vindictive and they often stalk and...
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Why would you consistently attract narcissists?
Because you believe the best in people and take them at face value. You believe in giving praise and encouragement instead of...
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What is the connection between narcissism and shame?
AnswerThere are two varieties of shame:1. The Narcissistic Shame ("shamelessness") which is the experience of the Grandiosity Gap...
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How do you manage a narcissistic employee?
It is absolutely essential that you first be sure that your employee is in fact a narccissistic individual or else your remedy...
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How do you expose a narcissistic sibling?
Here are a few of the things the narcissist finds devastating: Any statement or fact, which seems to contradict his inflated...
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Is there a connection between narcissism and bisexuality?
No study or research at any time has shown any connection whatsoever.
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Is reluctant reconciliation a narcissist trait?
Because he wasn't sure that he has secured a substitute. Nasrcissists drop their current sources of supply (devalue and discard)...
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Why would a narcissist say they have no or low self esteem?
Answerthe general consensus amongst psychologists seems to be that the disorder is compensatory. while the narcissist may truly...
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How do narcissistic cycles of overvaluing and devaluing work?
My experience was similar, except that the periods of time between overvaluing and devaluing were shorter. He could be lovely and...
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Will you be drawn to narcissists if your father had narcissistic traits?
That you should recreate with other people your relationship with an abusive or narcissistic (or both) father (or mother)- is not...
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How do you handle complex legal matters with a narcissist?
Your best strategy is to show him that HE has no merit in your life. Stay calm and appear unaffected. Let your attorney handle...
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How can you have a relationship with a narcissist without feeling abused?
. You couldn't (improve on last answer, or have a relationship with a Narcissist without feeling abused). You cannot have a...
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Do narcissists often abuse drugs drink and have other addictions?
AnswerThere are no hard statistics on narcissism because they often go undiagnosed. A true narcissist is less likely to become an...
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Do narcissists say it is 'the real me' when describing themselves in situations they like?
AnswerOnce formed and functioning, the False Self stifles the growth of the True Self and paralyses it. Henceforth, the True Self...
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Are narcissistic people aware of their wrong doing?
AnswerThe narcissist knows to tell right from wrong. He is perfectly capable of anticipating the results of his actions and their...
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Is it common for a narcissist to label others as narcissists?
A lot of people tend to project their faults on to others. I doubt if it's common for people to project the actual term...
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Where can parents of narcissists go for help?
you're probably the cause of the problem... so go get some therapy yourself. then make apologies.
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Are narcissists capable of listening to others?
They may appear to listen intently to potential sources of supply. It is their way of "captivating" them. But they aren't really...
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Would a real narcissist tell you that you could do better than to be with them?
Narcissists continually test their companions/mates/spouses - "If she knows my true character will she abandon me"? It would be...
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Is the narcissist always aware of their desire for attention and adulation?
Sometimes the narcissist does gain awareness and knowledge of his predicament - typically in the wake of a life crisis (divorce,...
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My ex husband is a narcissist?
Do some web searches on Narcissism - read all the traits & stories. You will find it easy to come to your own conclusions.
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Do narcissists cry when they have been emotionally hurt?
Yes. Great big crocodile tears. If you know anything about crocodile tears, you'll run quickly in the other direction. ------- ...
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Is there anyone who does not have narcissistic qualities?
There is a huge difference between having narcissistic traits, a narcissistic style - or even a narcissistic personality - and...
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Can two narcissistic people marry?
AnswerIt depends on numerous factors. Two narcissists OF THE SAME TYPE cannot maintain a stable, long-term FULL FLEDGED...
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Is it more painful for a narcissist to be ignored or ridiculed?
== I agree with what a lot of you have said. I find a lot of narcissists at the gym. They are so fixated on their looks and many...
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How does a narcissist behave in court when they owe you money?
If the narcissist regards you as a potential future source of narcissistic supply, he will seek to compromise. If he has given up...
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Are physical and verbal withdrawal narcissistic traits?
AnswerWithdrawal, withholding, and the "silent treatment" are classic abuse techniques. AnswerAbsolutely, this is...
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Can a narcissist love his spouse or only be obsessed?
Narcissists "love" their spouses or other significant othersas long as they continue to reliably provide them with Narcissistic...
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What does masaganistic mean?
I think you meant to say misogynistic. The definition is "a hatred of women", which could mean that the person (usually male)...
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How gullible are narcissists?
Oh! The answer is something along the lines of how long is a piece of string? Everyone has some level of narcissism. Don't you...
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How do you share custody with a narcissist?
I described in "The Guilt of the Abused - Pathologizing the Victim" how the system is biased and titled against the...
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Is there a typical relationship between a narcissist and his family?
We are all members of a few families in our lifetime: the one that we are born to and the one(s) that we create. We all transfer...
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Are narcissists stable and reliable - or unpredictable and dangerous?
Narcissists belong to two broad categories: the "compensatory stability" and the "enhancing instability" types. These...
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How do you deal with a narcissistic husband that drinks?
I doubt narcissism has anything to do with this. If a person drinks a lot or is an alcoholic they can be extremely abusive and...
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Who is the goddess of infatuation?
Greek: Aphrodite Norse:Freya(i think)
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Are all alcoholics narcissists?
Alcoholism is often co-diagnosed with NPD. However, not all alcoholics are narcissists (though some may have narcissistic...
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Is there a correlation between adopted persons and narcissism?
Yes! Narcissism is the result of inadequate, chaotic or inconsistent "mirroring" in early life. "Mirroring" means: the many times...
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A narcissist with a socially pleasing demeanor?
Most narcissists do have a socially pleasing demeanor. A person can be obsessed with themselves even to the point of how they...
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At what age does narcissism take permanent hold?
The full fledged manifestation of pathological narcissism - the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - can be diagnosed in...
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What causes extreme manipulation of others?
Narcissists are impatient, they want things to happen yesterday, so impatient to get what they want now that they pull out all...
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Can a marriage last with a narcissist husband?
Of course, but it may not be pleasant for the wife . . .
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Why does the narcissist just disappear?
Because he doesn't care about you and he is off to look for his next feed of adoration. He is sick. You cant fix him. He will...
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Why does the pain of narcissistic abuse last so long?
My Narcissistic partner did the following; forced me in to an abortion, hit me once, pinned me down on the bed, gave me that...
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How do you convince a narcissist to have sex?
convince him that its what he wants because all he cares about is himself
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Can narcissists be cured?
AnswerDisciplinary intervention, for the illegal activities of a person suffering from NPD, including but not limited to the...
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