Abused Men
Instances of men being abused by their partner – physically, emotionally or even sexually – are as prevalent as women abuse. Unfortunately, many of these cases go unreported because male victims have to contend with social standards of men being the abuser.
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Lily of the valleyNo. 'If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all.' Would you rather they say nasty things or yell, etc? GROW UP Note:...
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IF you do not like the way your husband is speaking to you then you have the right to say so. A marriage is not a marriage if you...
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How abusive women can treat their husbands: Verbal Abuse: (most popular.) Calling the husband names such as 'useless'; 'a...
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Note: Further stories and testimonials should be placed in the discussion section below. Answer Of course they can. Consider...
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Literature on AbuseAccording to law enforcement statistics, women abusers - especially batterers - are far rarer than male...
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AnswerAs you know, you cannot fix her problem and live your life safely. Six months to your move date seems like eternity. You...
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AnswerIt's only been in the past few years that the battered male syndrome has gotten serious attention. The latest percentage of...
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You can't get through to anyone who has alcohol abuse. They have to hit bottom before they reach the top. Many prefer to wallow...
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Abuse is... Her incessant criticism about the man on a personal, such as... You are ugly. Nobody but me loves you - look at...
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There are all sorts of names you could call a person like this (and not so nice names too. LOL) This person could be anything...
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Actually, abuse comes in many forms. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, etc. Basically, if your partner is doing something...
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The answer is pretty simple: LEAVE !!! Do you think that it will get better? It won't! Do you think that she will stop after the...
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I have been abused by my husband and I have a wonderful support system. Although, we have been separated/divorced for almost 2...
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Abuse is any pattern of injurious behavior repeated despite the protests of the victim and her explicit requests to...
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When someone who has been in any type of abusive relationship and they do not seek psychological counselling they will never get...
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On TV, it seems really funny. In real life, it is hurtful, annoying, and frustrating. It can be abusive if it is constant and...
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While it's normal to have your own "hot buttons", it's not normal to threaten people, no matter who they are. Many of us...
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Many do and do it for the power trip. Some however, do not..it is a way of life.
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Get professional help,call a crisis line anything. If you fear for your safety or that of your children ,leave.Look in the yellow...
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a nymphomaniac is a woman that craves for sex. the male equivalant is satariasist.
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Because she probably puts up with his bad behavior over and over again. She is probably insecure and needy and the narcissist...
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In Canada... If you start cohabitating with someone who is the parent of your child, you are considered to be common-law...
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It is not fair to be accused of something that you are not guilty of. Your wife has reason to feel the way she does. You need to...
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Telling someone how you feel is not a bad thing. Listen to how they feel about things as well. If someone says that maybe you...
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No - it's not rare at all. They get depressed, withdrawn, and consider leaving just like a woman.
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It is not a laughing matter and, it is not abuse. It depends on the life of the couple, their level of communication and the...
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I don't know what good it does to keep score of which is the greater abuse, but since you asked, I'll answer you. In this case,...
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Not one human can avoid disappointments in the future. Sometimes disappointments of not getting what you feel you should at...
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Unless you are a famous person yourself or are in a industry where you could run into this man, it's highly unlikely you'll ever...
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If both people agree to it, they need to go to joint marital counseling. If your spouse plans on pressing charges against you...
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AnswerIt sounds like she is starved for affirmation, you may have to work to catch up. It seems like people who talk non-stop...
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You have to be really serious and tell him what you think.Don't hold back in this matter. I think so too. but if that doesn't...
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Your girlfriend is immature and insecure about sexuality, but unless she's physically hitting you or criticizing you constantly...
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First go see an attorney. Wherever you are, you have parental rights and abuse is wrong. Start documenting all abuse. Find...
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Absolutely. I am living proof. I had my period, and A DAY (one day!!!) after it was over, I had unprotected sex with my...
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That's simply not true about the laws. There are Abuse Centers and many of them have programs for abused men. There is much talk...
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AnswerWell, because that's an uncomfortable precursor to touch in that area it will remind the individual of the experience. Most...
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Maybe to her, any anger is threatening and she is letting you know that she won't put up with it. If you don't like her acting...
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Yes, and the signs can be the exact same as if she was a man.
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AnswerYou know which words and behaviors will get a certain reaction from the other person. When you are angry or in a retalitory...
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Great answer. This holds the same for men as it does for women. You are very fortunate you only had a brief encounter with...
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Money doesn't buy you true love nor does it give you good health. Without either money means nothing. Having someone love you...
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A sadist is a person who gets pleasure out of physically or emotionally harming someone.
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The word "abuse" can quite often be thrown around far too often. It is quite normal for any couple to get into a heated argument...
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This sounds like mental abuse. You have to decide what you are going to do. Why would the person you are married to do this. Does...
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that is when lets say you have depression and are suicidal and some person is way rude and uses your weakness to their advantage....
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Honestly, there should be no reason why you would want to die. People say its because their depressed, have no family, lost their...
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P.S. What happens in prison stays in prison. Urban myth: "It usually happens." The truth is: "It can happen some of the...
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Oops! Had a blast on my brain cells and gave the wrong answer. It's time the guy came straight with the justice system (for...
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I don't know. You'll have to ask the powers that be.
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Typically sociopathic. Religious, outgoing(some are quiet depends), confident, believe in family values, some like...
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LEAVE HIM!!! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT. Well, you let him know once and for all that this type of abuse will...
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They may have just returned it because they thought you would like to have it back and they really don't need to have it or want...
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About 80,000 people die of relationship abuse a year.
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Not all do, but if they did, it could be because of mental problems (uncontrollable), aggression issues, or because of an...
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you cant make someone love you so dont even try to. dont ask or anything.so just spend alot of time with them. ------------ Not...
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she shouldn't really forgive him it take so much time to forgive & forget.because you'll always remember what he did to you...
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That Shaycarl is the best man in the entire world.
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You caught him in the act and the only way this neanderthal can fix the problem and save face is by fighting. Fist fighting...
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it is just something we do because our man is for us and we feel that even kno they wear the pants we want to feel like we have a...
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Basically, the thing is to worry less about getting justice than getting yourself back on your feet and into a safe situation....
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Your public library is the best place to go. The States may be different than Canada and if you are American you can pay a small...
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what is important in your life money or love.i m telling love give me reason
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Teachers in love...Depending on what grade you are in and how your feelings are towards them, you should never date another...
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If you are talking about another female, outside the marriage, he needs to be the one to take the bull by the horns, in this case...
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you cannot knock someone out in one punch except with one of the next: bone break, internal/external hemorrhage, cartilage break,...
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Be his friend and be there for him when he wants to talk about it. Encourage him to go to the police, but no one can really make...
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they would get really jealous and they would want you more. its like playing hard to get. if they like you, they would get really...
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I was deeply in love with a women some 8 years ago now, who for two years mentally abused me, she would say and do the most...
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because your in love with them and your nervous at first.
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Estimates range from 960,000 incidents of violence against a current or former spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend per year to three...
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AnswerNo, they are generally more quiet and submissive and its more males (sons) in the family that will follow their father's...
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You could report this to the police anonymously; however, without proof it will be of little help. You could ask the police to...
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well if she can't say i love you, maybe there's no emotional connection yet. Answer: I am sorry but if she is not willing to...
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take out the trash, fix/repair things around the house.
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What would it do to anyone? Nobody likes that kind of behavior and eventually, most normal people would find a way to avoid it.
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Pyschological abuse can affect anyone, male or female. Women are particularly good at psychological abuse often surpass the...
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Warning: This definition contains adult content and may not be suitable for children, or adults of intellectual immaturity. ...
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The same reason men have affairs: They are unhappy in their relationship. Their sex life may be boring. The couple may be...
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It sounds like you are angry about the way you have been treated, and that may well be understandable. At the same time, your...
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If this were the case then 75% of Americans would be staring through bars. Most couples get into heated arguments and both of you...
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Both are valid and it simply means both of you are to stay away from each other. You've obtained it and paid for it so both of...
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The next time the spouse is abusive, call the police and have them arrested. File for a restrianing order and start the process...
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It is certainly true that there are a lot more abused men out there than most people realize and because women are considered the...
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Firstly, there is no possible way this friend of yours could know what his wife is saying to him if he is asleep. Either he's...
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they can if you seek professional help. they are many types of addictions but all are psychological.
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Answerlove is something that ages 16 and up should be so you can drive but don't drink and drive and don't get distracted bu...
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Only through his use of intimidation. Most criminals will be more likely to attack the vulnerable, this is not limited to Canada.
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Yes, they were, women in higher classes had more privilage and women of lower classes had less.
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There is an excellent source for dealing with narcissists at: http://www.narcissists-suck.blogspot.com
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Mentally or physically, the abused have the choice to break the cycle! The Past isn't what we live with, it's the present and...
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You didn't state if you were quiet and shy around your mate or friends of both of yours. Your mate knew you were quiet and shy...
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You need to leave him and make the declaration that you have left him public. If your boyfriend needs to know your whereabouts...
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AnswerSexually addictive men certainly need to seek counseling. It's like gambling or being addictive to drugs or alcohol. It's...
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I seriously doubt that ANY judge in ANY state would ever reject an abused spouse's divorce petition, even the husband's.....no...
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If he physically threatens you, go to the police if you're an adult. If you're a school age person, tell someone at your school...
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Walk like a man! No man should EVER take this type of abuse from any woman if he is kind and caring towards her. You could try...
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most likely because he feels responsible for her in a way. she put up with him growing up now its his turn to put up with her....
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