How do you stop being shy in front of girls?

Answer 1

Guys can have confidence around girls because he feel that he is brave to be around a girl that he like and stuff. Talk to a few girls not trying to get into a relationship... soon u will be really confident.. trust me i had the same problem... since then ive gotten far. Well first you don't need to change who you are to feel confident around girls!! and if they are your friends then why should you need confidence? Just remember that you are your own person and you don't need to let the girl that you like take away the you from you!!!

Be yourself! You should always tell yourself that you are a wonderful person and you have so much to offer. Just remember this "I am a good person and any girl would be luck to have a guy like me because I would treat her so well." Don't be too cocky though. If you act like you're all that then girls will think that you are vein. Just relax and be friendly. Smile and be charming! Treat them as your friends, and be happy. By friends, I don't mean talking endlessly about sports/Video Games, unless the girl you're talking to likes that stuff. And above all, be yourself, don't act like a jerk because the "popular" guys are doing it, be genuine, I love seeing that in a guy. Try and get her friends msn or something talk to them a bit and watch your confdence grow like a tree on steroids

I am going to answer from personal experience(I am 20 years old now). When I was younger(before 4th grade) I talked with girls fine. Then, I changed and was unable to talk with them until senior year of high school really. As others have mentioned, confidence and not psyching yourself out is VITAL. I used to be so afraid of them not liking me that I forget to just be friends.

• Start by trying to talk with girls that you sit next to in class. Talk to her about the subject you are in, or about events going on at school, hell, even talk about what is for lunch! Just talking in general will ease your tensions! As others mentioned, don't talk about games/violence etc. Talk about things they would be interested in. Talk about tv shows, movies, sports, current news, your favorite foods... ANYTHING!
• Try and make your first girl "friend". Try and become good friends and try and build trust between you two. After a while, you could even talk to her about your confidence problems. I made a few girl friends and they helped me with my problem a LOT!
• GET OUT THERE! Do things with them! One thing that I regret the most is not going to school events such as the football games, the dances, etc. You can only build confidence through experience, I really believe that.
• Taking that first plunge is hard, I know it from experience. I was so shy that now, at 20 years old, I just have my first gf. I have completely changed, my entire lifestyle has changed, for the better. I now have many girl friends and am very comfortable around them. I no longer freak out when I meet a new girl, or around a group of girls(sometimes ahahha). I went from spending 0 time with girls to spending every single day with them, doing things with them every day, more than with guys typically now! I am telling you that it is all experience, once you start talking with them more you will become more comfortable.

  Low self confidence = high fear of rejection.

  Most guys won't try and talk to girls or they just do it badly, because they think too much; thinking too much about what other people think of you is a serious conversation-killer! The honest truth is to just be yourself, and don't look at every girl that you think is gorgeous as a potential girlfriend; that can be picked up on. If you see a girl that you really want to talk to, then just do it! After you do it, you'll feel so much better, and you'll realise that if it did go badly your arms and legs didn't fall off or the world didn't end; what's the worst that could happen?

• If you're trying to be nice to a girl by being friendly with her and she's making an effort to put it across that she doesn't care, then she's the one with the problem and not you; don't waste anymore of your time with girls like that. Talking to girls that you don't fancy is easier, so just try that; just try to be natural about it, don't force fake conversations out.

Answer 2

Just think of girls as your guy bestfriends! Every girl is easy to be around. Say to your self "there is NO reason to be shy around girls" Because most generally, once you become older and older, wanted to get married and to start a family you need to have confidence, be yourself, outgoing around girls. If you are not an outgoing person to begin with.. thats perfectly okay too! Making sure with girls that you are not as loud as others, will make you more comforable around her. Dont think so negitave about being shy, being shy is just being more reserved. If waiting naturally is a problem, thats okay..... here are more ways to help overcome shyness. Find your strenghts (good qualitlys in you) , Learn to LOVE yourself! , Dont think to youself in the situation. example (If a girl you like comes up to you and asks you how your doing, dont think about everything! like her not liking you back, or you looking bad, or saying something you shouldnt have. Accept rejection... understand this is apart of life and not everybody is going to like you. Dont label yourself. Especially labeling your self as the "shy one" Labeling yourself as the shy one.... holds you back from being the person you are. If this information does not help search your question on the internet! Take care xx

Answer 3

heres something i have always told my friends with this problem, and i do it myself. if you dont feel confident...just pretend that you are! just pretend that your confident and it will give the impression you are to those around you. after a while it will become natural for you to act like it. theres nothing more sexy than confidence apparently! lol good luck x

Answer 4

In order to succeed in talking-to girls, you must "act-as-if' you believe in yourself. Stop seeking self-worth from strangers. She can't reject you. She doesn't know you. Once you aren't afraid of a reaction or response from chicks, they'll sense your confidence and believe your own hype- not arrogance, that's unattractive. Get some stank on your hang low - it's bait.

Answer 5

you have to act normal like you always normally are on a normal basis,Walk up to the girl and tell her that you think she's hott or pretty.You shouldn't act like a jerk or any other nonsense..just be your self.

Answer 6

Just be straight up. Meet up with more girls and friends go to the movies. The more u meet with girls u will gain confidence around them. If u are too shy to meet up with a girl urself then just go with a mate and meet up with some so at least u with ur mate.

Answer 7

• There isn't much of a trick with this sort of thing, it sorts of happens, however, after spending some time with the girl (talking, getting to know her etc.) then the comfortable moment starts to sprout. Just have the courage and self-confidence to start talking with her and become friends first, the healthier relationships starts this way.

Answer 8

Be yourself.