first see if you can access the trunk by removing the back of the rear seat. other than that, a locksmith will access it without causing any damage
you may also be able to purchase new key thru dealer by supplying your vin number
You can't. You'll need to go to the Stealership, with your vehicle registration and ID, and have them order you one from Germany. Takes about a week and you then give them around $180.
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