How can one get good legal representation when poor?

You can appeal on the grounds of insufficient, or ineffective, counsel. It doesn't get granted very often, but it is one option.

It really depends on what you consider to be 'goods'.

to be understoodListening intently to what is being said to you, being careful of your body language: make sure if you are comfortable and look like you are comfortable and smiling.

Your question is not entirely clear. One must comply with the marriage laws of one's state (residency requirement, marriage license, legal age, etc.), and the person performing the marriage must be...

I don't know. it not