you stop freaking out around them, look at them in their habitat. once you feel comfortable around them, u pick it up (make sure its a gartner snake, or other non-poiseness kinds)
No, and if they do there may be a dehydration issue, lack of heat or lack of proper food. If you are feeding every 1 - 2 weeks and the snake is not shedding at least every 3 months you should consult...
Well, i would say if you are not at or near a hospital puncture the skin and suck out the posion but make she you spit it out and rinse your mouth well. then the person who got bit go to the hospital...