What do you do if your brother is gay?

Answer 1

There is no way. Except the stereotypical signs but most if not all of them aren't reliable. The only way is to ask him and if he trusts you enough he'll come out to you if he is gay. If not you have to take his word for it!

It would be better if you were to just ask him about his sexuality. Though, he may be uncomfortable talking about it.

Answer 2

You probably will have to ask her. If you think she is gay because she has lots of female friends, that isn't really a sign. If you think she is gay because she doesn't have any boy friends, that isn't a sign either. Ask her what she thinks about some famous lesbian singer and get a clue from that.

If she is gay she may or may not want to tell you, depending on how good your relationship with her is. If you are really good friends with your sister and you seriously think she might be lesbian, you could ask her. She might tell you.

Answer 3

Love him, accept him, support him. He had no choice in the matter and needs all of the support his family can provide.

Numerous studies have shown that lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth have a higher rate of suicide attempts than do heterosexual youth -- much of this due to the lack of family support.

Answer 4

There is no easy way of knowing, for everyone is different. The best way is to ask him, if you and he have an atmosphere of trust. If you have shown that you do not discriminate, then he may be more ready to be open with you.

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If your son is gay and a teenager, there is not really anything you can do about it but accept it, learn about it, and support him in this time. It is not easy for a boy to accept himself as gay, as you probably understand, and he needs the strong support of his family.

If you are worried that he is gay, then you should talk to him about it. Show him you are accepting of gays by your words, and reassure him that he is your son and that nothing has changed.

Answer 5

Well, if he tells you he's gay, that would be one way. Another is if you see him dating other boys, or you see him behaving intimately with a boy (kissing, hand-holding, cuddling). Gay men and boys sometimes wear clothes that are associated with gay pride (rainbow jewelry is common).

But there isn't anything otherwise specifically distinctive about how gay boys talk or act that is unique to being gay.

Answer 6

If you believe your brother is gay and have a very good reason for wanting to know whether or not this is true, then ask him.

If you don't have a really good reason for wanting to know - curiosity doesn't count, neither does wanting to discuss your brother's private life with others - then don't worry about it.

You must have areas of your life you prefer to keep private, not only from your brother but from others as well, so you'll understand that if you wanted to share private information with anyone else you'd do so.

If you didn't want to share such information you certainly wouldn't want other people to be working out ways to find out about it, and would understandably resent their doing so.

Answer 7

matters what you mean. if you mean like LOVE you like he want to have sex with you than he will probably try and get close to you. if you mean just brother sister love witch hopefully you do than i don't know. for me and my brother i know he likes me but only because we're brother sister. what my brother does is he talks to me sometimes teases me and invites me to play vedio games with him all of witch are usually signs that he like as brother sister. my bro also doesnt outright say he likes/loves me either. hope this helps!

Answer 8

there is no way to tell if someone is gay without them actually confessing it. You have to ask him.