One way that you can get him to leave her for you is to be his friend. Get to know him a little better. When you think that you have him figured out, hang around and get to know his friends. When you see him upset, take your chance and make him feel better. If you don't see his girlfriend around, do everything in your power to get him to notice you more. Then, He's basically all yours.
You cannot force anyone to do something they do not want to do and were not ever going to do in the first place. As "the other woman" you are just that "the other woman" unfortunately when a man cheats on his wife he was always intending to just use you for his selfish needs and had no intention to ever leave his wife and/or be with you. You should stay away from this man and move on you deserve better and he will just stay with his wife.
This is a difficult question, since it assumes somehow that one is in a situation parallel to another situation filled with tension. From the perspective of a divorced person, I can testify that after a divorce decision, it is important for one to spend time on their own.
The trauma of leaving a relationship leaves people weak and often lacking in judgement. Time to heal is important and involving other parties, may not let us see and deal with the pain. It can also lead to unfair treatment of the other. For example an ex-spouse can easily use this fact as a weapon or major reproach, and thus 'victimise' themselves, avoiding to see what might have been wrong in a relationship. From the perspective of the external party, waiting and feeling this pressure is very diminishing and probably tormenting...
Rebuilding our defenses and getting to know how we have evolved through time is a core concept of healing. I have always been skeptical about people who did leave partners and actually ended up very quickly with people very similar to the ex-partners.
The fact that people need to leave a relationship is a sad fact, but it is better than force-feeding dead relationships. Yet, grace and respect are good notions to apply.
While separated from my husband, I met a man who, from what I could gather was ending a martial relationship. In many ways, I found in him many qualities and he was trully an interesting person, whom I got to know on a friendly level. I always though had the impression that he was looking for someone to hang-on to, to be able to get through this situation.
Then I asked myself, do you trully want to take the risk and influence his decision making be that for someone else? My answer was no! I gave this person some advice about decision making and the importance of being honest with oneself and then with others. Although I like supporting people, in this situation I felt that even if this person sincerely liked me, his judgment might have been blurred by his state of distress.
Although I knew that he was an extraordinary man in many ways, I prefered to let him accomplish this step on his own, rather than accepting to be the so-called 'one' he would leave his wife for. This is not to say that he was worth nothing, but rather, that he could be worth more to himself and others if he could marshall the courage to get out of a difficult situation, without draining someone else.
I was subtle about it and did not try to moralise me. He decided not to contact me again. It's for you to decide if he was sincere :-)!
If hes going out with you then hes obviously unhappy in his marriage. Ask him that if this is the case why doesnt he end the marriage.
If he doesnt want to end the marriage tell him its over. If he likes you enough he would end up choosing you; that would be the ultimate test.
remember if you marry a man who left his wife, you the wife of a man who will leave his wife to marry some one else
show him your worth it
the wife!
No. A married man will often say he wants to leave his wife for you just to make you feel special. If a married man does not leave his wife within 6 months after meeting you, chances are he'll never leave his wife for you.
Make sure they don't complain about being squashed!
easy, take that sucka from her, and make him your own.
Tell them you need some time alone or make an excuse to leave them.
No I don't think it would.If you want to my opinion is NO that's wrong.If your in that situation I think you should find a nearby job.So that way you could still maintain your kids and be with your wife.
of course not, moses would never leave his wife behind, he satyed faithful.
Yes. The husband would be the sole owner of the property and could leave it to his wife in his will.
I do not mean to be abusive with you, but frankly it sounds like you are being abusive with her. Get a grip and tell her the marriage is over, and then you leave. If you don't want her with you, you have to ask yourself why you are still there.
No. You shouldn't.
his Kids..
infidelity