Answer:
First communicate with him, you need to let him know your needs aren't being met.
Many men lack the knowledge and the concern for the woman of the relationship, their thoughts are on their own satisfaction and nothing more, this can change for some and/or many with maturity, however and sad as it is many will never mature enough to think of anybody other themselves, yes they mature physically but never emotionally, thus, a unhappy and/or frustrating relationship or marriage.
Learning what and how to use foreplay will go a long way in correcting the problem.