How can you make a guy fall in love with you if he admits you are so perfect?

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You can't. We all know no one's perfect; however, you may be perfect in another person's eyes, which is different. In my experience, it's not necessarily you that have the problem, it's him, and you can't do anything about that.

There are only a couple of things that you can do in a situation like this:

1) Do you want to wait for this person to realize you're a keeper? Hoping he'll fall in love with you? If yes, keep being yourself and pray. There may be the chance that he doesn't realize it. Then, you must know that it's his issue...not yours and move on.

2) You leave the relationship letting him know that you deserve better and need someone who is sure of what they want. It may be a wake up call for him, or he may agree to that. You want to be sure this is what you want to do because there's a risk there.

Bottom line is men don't readily know what they want or recognize what's potentially good for them. There's nothing you can do about that. You have to look out for you and hope they get on board.

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Well, if he already thinks you are you perfect, you just need to keep being yourself. You cannot make him fall in love with you though. Your best bet is to be yourself and show him that you care about him.

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Sorry, but if he admits that you are so perfect but still hasn't fallen in love with you, then you are probably not the perfect woman for him. All you can do is be yourself and not let him take you for granted and pray that he makes a move!

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You can't make someone love you. They have to decide that for themselves. Just be a good friend, and work at it.

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Well, if he says your perfect to you, you know what's going to come up next? Haha. Just make sure that you don't make any mistakes or any dumb movements until he asks you out.

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Sometimes when everything they say or do is to good to be true, just remember there is a very good chance that it is. No one is perfect, and you can't make someone fall in love with you. All you can do is let them see you and then if they feel its right they will fall in love with you.

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Ohhh man. First, you can't make someone love you. Love just happens. Second, you aren't perfect. So quit flattering yourself, and if by any slim chance he thought you were sooo perfect, you would already be out of his leauge.

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Now, I'm sure that you're a bright woman. So deep down inside, you probably already know that the answer to your question is: You can't.

Maybe you meant to ask another question? For example, "How can you move on from a one-sided relationship, where you like someone chemistry-wise who doesn't like you back?"

Perhaps you didn't ask this question because you are also a bright woman, and you realized that this task is rather difficult. It takes grit, determination, foresight, and self-esteem. It means that you have to work on yourself and your own goals rather than avoiding them by trying to change another person. It means that you have to admit that you can't control another person, no matter how perfect you are...and that sucks sometimes, but it is a part of life. Besides, would you want some guy who thinks he's perfect trying to MAKE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM? What happened to mutual chemistry?

See, I knew you were smarter than that!

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1) You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you

2) Get off the pedestal. Make the guy see that you're not so perfect after all. and that you two can relate to each other, rather than him worshipping you (never going to work).

3) Make sure he's not using it as an excuse because he's too meek to say he's not interested in you.

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You can't make some one fall in love with you, just be yourself, and no matter what don't change for anyone. He may already be in love you, you never know. If he thinks you're perfect, what more can you ask for? Guys are just so unpredictable!!

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Well I must say I agree, you can't make anyone fall in love with you. It'll have to be their choice. You can only be appealing eonugh. Falling in love with someone might not be intentional, but love is a good thing and when you are in love with someone you will do anything to make them happy. Most guys are fond of saying things to girls they don't mean and when a guy admits that you are so perfect he realy likes you, and you must give him a chance to know you. love is not something that comes at once. You must respect someone then you like them, and then that like and respect develops into love. If he says you are perfect then you should work out what exactly he means by that. If you think you like him, make him as for it. Show him that you are different from all the other women he has dated. Love is such a beautiful thing that when you fall in love with someone it's quite hard to let go. Many women take the wrong stand and the wrong approach to men. To touch a man's heart, you must know what he likes and what he does not like. Understand him and listen to him. Let him know that you'll be there no matter what happens.

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What a bunch of downers! Of course you can make someone fall in love with you!!!!! Just do all the right things be what he wants you to be!!!! You will get results. Trust me. Be yourself if that's what he likes and prefers. Come on girl you got to try!!!! If he's definitely worth it, then give it a shot. Of course you can make someone fall in love with you!!!! Its very very silly to say you can't.

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Beware of a man who says he thinks you are perfect. If you have a relationship with this person and start to show that you are human and aren't perfect (after all, NO ONE is perfect), it may cause problems in the relationship.

Your post strikes me as odd because this guy says you are perfect but is not already in love with you. There must be more to the story. T

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All you gals out there who want to be loved by the man of your dreams the way you've always loved him. Please do not lose hope. Believe in your love and yourself. Be true to that man. Expect good things to happen because you deserve something good to happen to you only when you have been pure and truthful. Keep the hopes high and never give up.

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Ok. We all know that everyone is not perfect and that does not mean that you are on a pedestool. Men sometimes can be intimidated by women who are perfect in ways of personality, body shape, and overall appearance. People do have flaws, but you may be the woman who excites him or makes him feel like there are women out there who can have near-flawless attitudes. All I can say is he may be holding something back...whether it would be that you are so perfect to him that he is scared to let you see HIS flaws and imperfections. It will happen in time. Relax and go with the flow.

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How can you make a guy fall in love with you if he admits you are so perfect?

You cannot. Let him go!!!

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Love is a special thing in this world, and I don't think we should waste it. The man you are looking for needs to know that you're there and that you like him. If he doesn't, you haven't got a chance. Also no one is perfect you just have to make him think that you are excel in whatever you are good at. Show off, but be subtle around him. If you haven't got anything you are good at, then join in games or whatever he is doing and make him notice you more than OH HI but more of an I like that girl!

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1. You say he *admits* 'you are so perfect', not just that he says this. People usually admit things under pressure. If you've been putting him under pressure then what he says may be insincere, just to keep the temperature down.

2. It's possible that you used the word 'admit' loosely and meant 'says' ... Some men like a woman who's less than perfect.

3. You can't make someone love you. If you are thinking in these terms, that should set alarm bells ringing.

4. Don't try to be more and more 'perfect'. That's a recipe for really big trouble in the longer run.



Larry K. Mickelson, author of The Mystique of Love Unveiled, makes the claim that love is based on time dependency and that this dependency can be created in anyone. He suggests that determine the qualities of an acceptable partner, find someone who has those qualities and make them time-dependent on you. While his theories are unconventional, they go a long way toward explaining the most convoluted of human emotions.

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I wish I had a nickel for every time this question, in its many forms, has been asked. Put very little weight to the "perfect" part of the question. For the bigger part of the question, keep in mind that you may only control your own emotions, actions, words, behaviors, etc. If you want someone to be more fond of you, you must change what you are doing or how you are doing it. Don't start such a pattern in your life. Figure out who you are. Behave accordingly. Change only for personal improvement and growth. Stop focusing on this guy and what you can do to have his love.

First answer by Hiccop Sasafarwah. Last edit by Toehead410. Contributor trust: 14 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 218 [recommend question]

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