The pressure in the tank will vary from your cutin pressure to your cutout pressure. If you increased the pressure in the system, your air-charge will now be wrong. A good rule of thumb is cutin - 2...
It can go into a tee in the plumbing or into one of the 1/4" taps on the tank tee if you have one. It really doesn't matter how you do it as long as the switch is close to the tank.
There is a couple of different options. Some washers are equipped with pressure adjustment knobs. Failing that...all come with either multiple spray nozzles or twist type vari-nozzles. For multiple...