How can you tell if a guy doesn't like you or is not interested in you anymore?

Knowing a Guy Isn't Interested

Here is advice and input:

• He will either talk about sports, other girls, or just leave.

• He will not talk to you often or not even talk at all, ignore you and tries to avoid you.

• He will smile politely at you, but not the way he used to do before, then try to keep busy to avoid you.

• I have experienced this myself. First off, he will change... everything about him around you will. He will act more "to himself", do things without you more, force hugs and smiles and maybe even go out behind your back. Once he finds someone new, he will either tell you like it is or just leave. I advise asking him what the deal is before it goes any further. Or just cut yourself from the person all together.

• He might do something special for only one time that would make you feel happy then the next day he will ignore you or dont look at you

• Yeah If a guy isn't interested in you anymore, he will ignore you and make excuses not to see you. Guys really don't like confrontation at all. Watch his facial expressions when you talk to him or kiss him. All guys are different. Some aren't so obvious. Sometimes guys even kiss you a different way. Others just treat you badly, in hopes that you will end it with him. Make sure you get him to talk with you about it. Help him to confront it. If you just fizzle out and ignore him as well then you are giving him the easy way out. Plus you will feel realieved to know what his true feelings are about you.

• Usually when a guy isn't interested in you anymore, he won't call or will make up excuses so he won't have to see you. Or, if he's really mean, he'll make plans with you and not even show up! If he likes you, it should be easy to talk to him or see him and he won't ever make you feel bad. If it's difficult, it's obviously not meant to be.

• If he is no longer interested, he will ignore you. He will not take you out but rather go out by himself with his friends and other girls in the group. It won't be just the guys. He will not take you to family events, weddings, or work related functions. He will not call you as much or even at all. He will stop doing the little things that make you happy like the kiss in the morning before you leave each other for the day (whether you are living together or not). He will take all that you do for granted and not appreciate the little things you do. He will argue with you and make a big deal out of nothing. He will eventually get tired of being around you and what was once a time where it seemed you spent every waking hour together will be empty with you wondering what is going on. The mere fact that you asked this question should alert you to how your guy is feeling right now. If you feel like "you don't count" to him in the relationship, this is a clear sign that he is not interested in you any longer. Advice: Be nice to him when he talks to you but give him the cold shoulder and carry on with yourself. Make sure that you look good when you go out, even if it is to the corner store. Always be happy and this will get the wheels turning in his head. Let him be and give him his much needed space. He will realize that you don't need him and that is one thing that man can't stand. When the woman in his life is not affected by his "put-off" behavior. But this will only keep him around a little longer unless you really work at making yourself happy and not being needy. If he is done with you it will eventually end regardless.

• Guys have a tendency to want to cut their losses with little to no confrontation, but they have to realize they put themselves in that situation by not telling the girl(s) the truth that he's not interested. So guys and girls if you're not interested in someone please just tell the person the truth.

• Well, you can tell by if they dont treat you the same as when you first started dating. Or they act rude, very dumb, or say things to you that hurt your feelings. There are various reasons why a person can do such a thing. BUT always remember that your better than being walked all over.

First answer by Adam. Last edit by Danelly20. Contributor trust: 92 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 216 [recommend question]

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