How can you tell if someone really likes you or if they are using you?

You know they love you when you have that feeling deep inside, like you cant live without that other half of you.

You know when all you have left is them.

You know when every second feels like a dream while you're with them.

And you know they love you when you look in their eyes and see you together forever.

Well if they love you then they would do anything for you and if they didn't but they used you then they would push you aside

You can normally tell when their whole heart and soul is about you. Sometimes that is true love, which isn't normally found. We all make mistakes, so if you find out that you are being used, then don't be too hard on yourself. It's OK. You wouldn't want to be with them. The person will do his best to make you happy and when he is with you, try to see if he is focused on you or another girl, then you know what to do from there.

You can test it out. Try talking about something deep, like your plans and goals for the future. If he seems interested in the conversation, you know he's in love. If he seemed 'distracted' or uncaring, then he's just using you.

Usually, you will be able to know because, when you're with them, they will give their heart and soul to you.

The person should not want you just for your body, money, or anything that's out in the world, if he really likes you then he/she would start to hang around you or smile sometimes even be pretty shy ( i had a guy who liked me and he started asking my friends a hundred questions about me funny long story)

Love is a very big word to use now, especially these days, but when you think a guy or a lady likes you, here are some tips for all of us. As a guy I should be willing to spend some time with you, even though that time will be spent listening to your boring stories. Secondly I should wait for the right time to have sex with you, but I promise it won't take more than a month, because I believe that it will strengthen the relationship. Thirdly both parties should know its 50-50, I'm not going to pull 90% of our relationship we are both involved here.

You see if she keeps asking a question over and over again.

You will know if they like you because they will pick up on all the little things you do. Whether it's fiddling with your hair when your nervous, holding your elbows when your cold or biting your lip when your happy. What ever it is they will be able to pin piont at least on of your quirks.

If she/he is using you she/he will be all over you when another guy/girl comes around you.

Basically, in a teen relationship, the way to tell if they really like you is if they have respect for your wishes and they won't mind if you want to 'wait'. If someone is using you then they will only ever contact you for that one thing and nothing else. It will be plain to see if you look out for it, but it just might be hard to accept it.

you can usually tell if somebody is using you when an x or simply a boy or girl walks in the room and suddenly they are really into you, flirting, giggling and they keep on looking at the person.

eh, just want to say.. the first answer just means YOU love them... it's sad to say but what ever you feel is not connected to what they feel. Sometimes you love someone, sometimes someone loves you. And SOMETIMES, the one you love is also the one that loves you.

If they really care about you, then they will be all about YOU, instead of other people, They wont be as much into showing you off. They will respect your wishes while not just bending to your every whim. If they are doing that then they are just trying to please you for the moment.

First answer by ID1097135203. Last edit by Emereld42. Contributor trust: 11 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 358 [recommend question]