Sometimes he comes home late, he has suspicious marks on his shirt or coat, he does not put attention on you, he does not spend time with you, or he does not have private stuff with you.
One of the major signs of cheating is sudden lack of interest. This goes for multiple categories. Sex, Common interests, being around you, physical touch or affection. As a good looking guy I can tell you that guys in general don't have the emotional capacity to sustain deep meaningful relationships with 2 or more women. Sex yes, but not a deep relationship. We're just not built that way.
There are other ways like checking his phone, texts and email but the first signs are above and not limited to just those (although those are good starting points).
Answer 2: Some things to consider: Is your mate viewing pornography, flirting, talking about sexual fantasies with someone else or showing sexual interest in someone else? Does your mate behave too familiar or too affectionately with others? Is your mate constantly critical and complaining about you? Does your mate claim to be too busy or too tired to spend time with you. Has he stopped communicating, openly talking to you?
i hope these answers will help u in your relationship towards ur husband/wife. 1. check if her/his feet are pointing towards u. If they are he/she still has interests in u, If they are facing away he/she has no interests in u he/she is seeing other people, if they are in the middle that means he/she likes u but he/she is still seeing other people! 2. Does he tell u he/she loves u? Often: he/she loves u, never: he's/she's cheating, and always: means he/she would never trade u for anything he/she loves u! 3. If u ask him/her if he/she loves u make sure he/she is looking into your eyes if he/she is looking at your eyebrows he's/she's lieing. 4. if he/she is gone more than 8 hours a day then he/she is with another women/man, If he/she is home for more then 5 hours he/she loves u, If he/she is home all the time and u are the only one that has a job then chances are when u are at work there's another women at your house: so everytime u go to bed why he/she is in the bathroom or somewhere else check the bed with a black light or check somewhere, were u think he/she would have sex with another women if u find eveidence tell him/her face to face and tell him/her it's over or work it out! I hope u can find out if he/she is cheating on u with this advice!! Good luck.....
Instinct is usually effective at warning us that all is not well, but without following up on that instinct by observing and quietly CHECKING on your suspicions, you won't KNOW unless you are told.
Asking directly or addressing suspcions directly is, in my experience, ineffective. Betrayers will DENY wrongdoing (and in some cases continue to deny even in the face of irrefutable evidence!).
What you need to do is to ask yourself WHY you feel this way and WHETHER you even want to KNOW.
If you do want to know, ask yourself WHAT you wish to do about the knowledge should your suspicions prove correct.
The signs are many:
The possibilities are varied, but they are merely indicators that something MAY be amiss rather than pointers that somethng IS amiss.
Much depends on the quality of the relationship that you have and the "quality" of the person that you're involved with when it comes to deciding whether to brush away doubts or to substantiate suspicions.
If there is no history of infidelity on your partner's part in your relationship or in his previous relationship/s and if he is a reliable and honest person with whom you have a HEALTHY and satisfactory relationship, bear in mind that you may jeopardise your relationship by snooping about behind your partner's back (rather than dealing with this directly with your partner) because your holding back and attempting to otherwise substantiate your suspicions may undermine your partner's trust in you, should your suspicions prove incorrect.
It is up to you to weigh up the situation with your partner, your relationship and the consequences for you in mind before determining HOW to deal with suspicion of infidelity.
Behaving Different.
If he has a lot of unexpected or sudden events or appointments.
If he seems distant.
If he doesn't include you in their world as much as they once did.
If he is conveniently unreachable when they're away.
Watch the movie, Unfaithful, and see how her behavior changes. It's perfect!
I hope that helps you!
Good Luck!
if your concerned he is cheating than you need to talk to your husband about marriage therapy. Never go behind his back because of your suspicions.
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You are the only one that can really tell if your husband is having female friends outside your marriage. If your concern about his cell phone and his computer, stop him by talking to him. That was the mistake I did because I trusted the man I married. And knowing his job I know that he is not doing any stupid things in his computer. But people are smart, they can be talking to someone on line and you will never know it because the volume of his computer is down or in mute.
Be smart this time, when your husband is home ask him that you want to see his cell phone, if he show it to you, then you can start telling him what your thinking. Don't give him an advance notice that you want to see his cell phone, or else he will delete all of his personal tel. number and you wouldn't see. Now with his computer, when he sit in front of his computer, walk behind him and ask him what he is doing, from there you will know. The best trap for husband is to ask him when he less expecting.
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Just watch his time line when he goes to work or coming home from work. If you can his cell phone will be your best bet. But for some married men who is involve with another woman long distance way, it will be hard especially if he works far from where you all live. My personal experience might help you. The man I married did had an affair, and working far from our home did help him and I never realize it for a while. And this is one of the things that you need to pay attention to...
he will make up excuses to go somewhere or he will come home late
you can tell if they have more late nights at work than usual and has no interest in sex
check chenfixwei
Definitely yes
tell him he has a small penis
Not necessarily.
Your husband can show various signs when he is cheating. He might be mentioning his ex in various matters.
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
You don't; if you love your husband just stop cheating; if you don't love you husband, tell him you don't love him and file for a divorce.
tell him how you feel about him cheating and that you know he's doing it, if that doesnt work buy him a block of chocolate. (I always suck up to my husband to get something out of him.)
Demand the truth, or tell him you're leaving him. No one deserves to be cheated on..
No. A husband with a cheating wife is called a cuckold.
You are in total control of yourself and you don't need permission or even to wonder about talking to your husband about his cheating. Let him know what you know and tell him if he continues to cheat you are filing for a divorce. Take control!
You don't. That's not your responsibility. The infidelity is between the husband and wife.
How dare you even think of cheating on your husband and not telling him. i want you to tell him now as you disgust me. spit on you. Full Stop