How can you tell someone that you are 26 years old and still haven't made love?

Answer 1

Why is it a problem? Are you being graded on performance?

I can't think of a situation where if two people were really in love that would be a problem. Heck, it most likely would be a very serious turn on.

Really? Why would anyone care? Would you?

Just do, and then they will think that how they are performing is better. If it your first time, your partner will enjoy it more because they know you will get the most out of it.

They should think its a compliment if you never found someone special enough until now!

Well I think it is better to tell the truth then lie about it. Twenty-six is still young. Some people are still in school at that age. People don't settle down at twenty six.. no worries!

If you don't tell them, they will figure it out quite quickly the first time you do it with them!

You don't owe anybody an explanation. I commend you for your ability to restrain yourself!

A potential sex partner has the right to know about your physical health and any STD's you have.

Your prior sexual experiences (or lack thereof) are your own personal business. Neither of you are under any obligation to say how many people you've been with, what you've done sexually, etc. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age, but you don't have to tell someone this unless you choose to do so.

If the subject comes up, tell them whatever you are comfortable with telling them. You can say that you haven't had a great amount of experience or haven't been intimate in several years and leave it at that. There is no definitive way for anyone to know you are a virgin unless you tell them, so there shouldn't be any problems.

Persons entering into a sexual relationship are individually responsible for protecting their own health and do not need to disclose the details of their private life unless they are willing to do so.

Tell the person if you want or don't. A 26-year-old should be mature enough and responsible enough not to need advice on how to conduct his or her private affairs.

Learn all you can on the internet about sexually transmitted diseases before your leap into the world of sex.

Actually whether you are a male or female the fact you are virgin is enticing to the person you will be having sexual relations with. It's a turn-on! That makes the practiced partner in sex feel they are the mentor and will enjoy teaching you all about sex. Don't be shy and don't feel ashamed. Prepare yourself from information about sex and those sexual transmitted diseases before you embark on this adventure. Be smart!

I am a 45 year old male, who was a virgin until I was 26 years old, so I can identify with your question very easily. My advice to you is first of all, don't have sex just for the sake of having sex. Sex without love is nothing more than just using another person to masturbate. On the other hand, taking a loving relationship into the area of physical intimacy is about as close to being in heaven as you are going to get in this life time.

Having said that, be honest with your partner, let them know about your inexperience. As many others have already stated, it will most likely be a turn on for your partner.

And most importantly, take your time. Have sex when you are ready, don't let someone push you into it. And take the time and the steps when you are ready to make it something special.