who are the n's and what are you talking about reevaluate your question and ask it again.
AnswerYou may need to move. it depends... on how involved with him you were. If you had a close intimate relationship that turned abusive, etc.. i would just do what it takes to move and get the hell out.If he was just an aquaintance, one night stand or just around your group. Just stick it out and ignore him. N's don't keep friends for long and chances are your other neighbors have had run ins. The truth wil come out and your niegbors wil figure him out if they havent allready. He will eventually move anyways. To get away from whoever is "persecuting them" girlfriend, etc... because they cant hide behind their web of lies forever.
You do have a right to live in the same building. You shouldn't let him intimidate you into leaving, unless of course you feel threatened or other circumstances. But you got to deal with it by shutting him out emotionally. Dont talk to him, don't glance at him even if he speaks to you. Dont worry about offending him. They have already alienated everyone around them or will very soon.
I have a similar circumstance in that i work with one everyday in the same building. We were once "friends" for about three years. (Thank God i didnt get intimate) He became cold and hatefull when he figured out i wasnt going to have sex with him. Must have been a blow to his ego when i told him he just didnt do it for me.
anyways i have to deal with him every day. I just ignore him completely. Unless we are around my boss or coworkers then i am polite. (because he pulled that sh** on me before) He tries to be real nice and get a response out of me when we are alone but he only gets the cold shoulder. Blank stare. indifference. it neutralizes him.
Head to the lowest floor of the apartment building, preferably a basement if possible. Stay away from windows.
Most people go through the heartache of losing someone they love whether they are a narcissist or not. Considering your ex is a narcissist you will begin to realize how lucky you were getting away from your ex. There is someone very special out there for you and fate has a way of forcing us down different roads of life to get something better in our lives. Hang on!
If you are on an upper floor leave it for a room in the basement or ground floor of the building. Within an apartment the safest room would probably be a bathroom. Stay away from windows.
You can become narcissistic afterwards, but you will not turn into a true narcissist. Stay away from him and go back to your family and hang around them for a while.
The stairs outside her apartment are filmed at a place called the stoop. The address is 273 E. 73rd street, New York, NY however, the inside of the apartment is filmed somewhere in The Villiage, about 2-3 blocks away from Charles street (where the real SJP lives!!)
NO!!! Narcissists don't heal. They are teflon emotionally. Just get away from them.
They will start to degrade and abuse you worse than ever. Get away!
To make the partner feel worthless
No. Move the building
NO! it gets worse! get away - STAY AWAY!!
Yes. And let him... keep going... as FAR AWAY from him as possible.
You cannot change a narcissist. That's like saying how do you change a snake into a bear. They use other people who are taken in by their performance. Get away while you can still run. If you think you can change a narcissist then you are setting yourself up as the perfect prey. While you are trying to change the unchangeable he will be using you up.