After a separation how do you get your husband back?

Answer 1

Winning your spouse back after separation depends on a lot of factors. First it depends on the gravity of what led to the separation, second it also depends on his state of mind at the moment. If he is happily engage to someone else, it may be difficult. But to win someone back, you must show genuine repentance and forgiveness.

Answer 2

Ask him if he is willing to meet you so that you may discuss a problem. (My favorite meeting place for such a meeting has always been a restaurant for the surroundings permit a conversation that does not allow us to raise our voices). Tell him that you miss him - we are all swayed by a little flattery - and ask him if he is willing to discuss the problem - you must then state the problem - that caused your seperation. Admit that you probablty misjudged his position and indicate that you are willing to listen to him and hope that he will allow you to explain your side. You see, problem solving is at the heart of any successful marriage. If problems remain unresolved, the burden will sooner or later cause a breakup. I highly recommend that you read Chapter 10 'Going Through the Problem' in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters." You can also visit Kpopp's website for more information.

Answer 3

Stop doing whatever it was that made you two get divorced in the first place.