Use the same methods fathers do in these situations. Consider Bird Nest Custody. Even with joint physical, you will need to pay child support and alimony. see link
As for Joint Custody of Them. See Bird Nest link And remember - you are not losing either parent.
Not if you move to a shelter or stay with relatives/friends. As long as you make sure your kids are safe and cared for you will not lose custody.
Yes, unless ruled on by the courts.
Until the lien is paid.
Yes, mothers do it all the time with stay at home dads. Equal rights.
Sack up and divorce, or stay together.
Not if she is a suitable parent. The child have the right to both parents so shared custody is most likely.
There is no generalized, standard answer to this question. There is WAY TOO MUCH information that is unknown. These things can either be agreed to between the spouses before-hand, or hammered out at divorce settlements.
An equitable division of the assets and debts. Depending on the circumstances, she may be entitled to child support and/or alimony.
Well its not fair to his wife. I think you should wait intell its finall. He could be lieing to u and theirs still a chance that he will stay with his wife.
Stay with friends or relatives who will keep watch over the child at all times. Obtain a restraining order. Obtain temporary sole custody. Consult an attorney.
No, but the person you want to stay with can request a change of custody.