How do I find a relative you never knew for example my grandfather Marvin Leroy Cain who I want to see and see if hes still alive?

prob cuz he/she still likes you as friend and doesnt want to lose your friendship

In Canada we call it 'Vital Statistics' which covers births, marriages and deaths. If you have your grandfather's full name and his birthdate you can research it. They will probably charge you for...

---- . It might be because she does want to see you but when you ask she says no because you smell to Strong of cologne or your breath ranks or it's just because your kinda scary...

She is the one you should be asking. Heres a thought, ask her if it's over.

There's always the possibility that he may just be busy. Or he may just not be into you. Or maybe he's afraid of something. The best thing to do is come out and ask him once: "Why do you never want...