How do same-sex couples adopt one another's kids?

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-- NOTE: This response is not meant to be mean. It is meant to be helpful. -- A more fundamental question I'll answer is, how do same sex couples recover from their personal-childhood-abuse-driven obsession with same sex people? DSM III provides help in this area and a good sex addiction therapist can help you get freedom of choice back into your sexual behavior. By recovering from the addiction, your quality of life can be returned to normal and your heart will no longer ache and feel empty from being abandoned by your derailed sexuality, derailed by your abuser(s). While I am heterosexual, I have many homosexual friends with whom I have had very personal discussions. At least one of those is a self-admitted sex addict. From his inside exposure to the gay and lesbian community, he believes that over 75% of the homosexual community are actually sex addicts that became addicted to same sex partners as children when they were sexually abused by same sex adults or older children. Like all addictions, the sex addicted homosexual believes they want to do the addictive behavior and that it is by their own personal choice that they do it. It is not until the addict makes a genuine heartfelt full blown attempt to stop the behavior that they realize they are compelled to do the behavior and that they are not actually making a choice, the addiction is. Using rigorus honesty, you can recover from sexual addiciton and be happy, joyous and truly free again, like before you were abused as a child. Google: Sex Addiction Recovery or Dr. Patrick Carnes for more information. Best wishes.