We've all been told arguing is a bad thing, especially with someone you love.
But this is not the case! Arguing can be positive and productive when done the right way. What is the essence of arguing?- putting forth a case for or against a certain topic/debate.
Make sure when you argue with your spouse you
- listen to his/her side fully
- prove that you listened by giving feedback
- compliment/awknowledge the fact that you understand his/her point of view
- speak in a low voice (yelling drowns you out and puts your spouse on the defensive)
- Buy flowers or beer for your better half once he/she realizes YOU are right!