How do you ask a girl if she is in a relationship or not?

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I am taking it you are wondering if she is having a relationship with another guy. Well, you come right out and ask her. Say something like ... "I was wondering if you would like to go out for dinner with me this Saturday night." If she says she is busy, please don't be disheartened and add, "Perhaps next week?" If she says she is busy the next weekend and offers no additional information then that is usually a sign she is not interested.

A little advice ... don't come on too strong and don't be in a big hurry to have a one-on-one relationship with this girl. Women today are much more independent and have almost taken over the social aspects of men. They are no longer the stay at home young women cooking and cleaning, but most are after careers, studying hard, and wanting more out of life before they start a family. ALWAYS be interested in what she has to say (if you don't understand her interests go on the web and learn about them so she feels she is on an intellectual level with you.)

Here's another secret about many women ... we love a man that will talk at us, not down to us. Women are equally as intelligent as men and we love to discuss many matters of the world. Ask most women what they like in a man the most and 80% of women will say, "I love it when a man will talk about things I am interested in and treat me like I actually have a brain." Even if you are bored re the subject she is talking about, be a gentleman and take the time to listen and you might just learn something. Same things applies to the ladies here. LOL

Good luck Marcy

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Say this to her: "Are you in a relationship, or not?"

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