Confidence!!!!!!!
Don't be afraid to just blurt something out or say something silly!!!
What helps me is just to think....I DON'T GIVE A CRAP WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT ME!
And it helps alot!!! I used...
The more u handle it and hold it it will get used to u when it is relaxxed it will tend to sit in one spot letitwalk around u and find its fav spot u will start to be able to tellwhen its comforatble...
If you mean sociable with people, it's best done when they're young by letting them have contact with a range of different gentle people, NOT screaming toddlers or rough kids who'll mistreat them....