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How do you get over someone you love when they do not feel the same way and we have children?
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∙ 13y ago
You can scour the internet or go look at self-help books and they will give you stupid advice like immerse yourself in a hobby, spending time with friends, tell yourself self-affirming things like you're too good for them and they don't deserve you, etc.
It's true that time usually helps ease the pain but, damn, when it happens it hurts and feels like the hurt is never going to go away.
Sadly, if it was love - real love and not a crush - you may not get over it for a long time. In fact, you may continue having strong feelings for them no matter how hard you try to forget them, even if you find someone else you may hold a secret place for that lost love in your heart. Little things will remind you of them and a bit of the hurt will still be there. Don't deny it. Live with it.
You're not alone at having been hurt by an unrequited love.
Even though people with the best of intentions may tell you to move on you may find that's it's a struggle. Maybe that's about all you can do. Maybe that's about all any of us can do. Just accept that it wasn't meant to be and stagger forward but keep moving forward because there's more to life in the long run than a lost love.
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 15y agoPlease resubmit your question as it is not clear what you would like to let "someone" do - Thanks.
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∙ 13y agoyou take a deep breathe, accept what has happen and hope tomorrow will be better. and if you need help, listen to your children's laughter.
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What do you do if someone you love loves someone else?
Get over that person or tell it how you feel.
Why when you don't have children you don't feel grown up?
Because you don't have control over someone and when you don't have that, you don't feel big or powerful.
How does Paul's mother feel about her children?
Paul's mother is mostly indifferent towards her children, favoring her son Paul over her other children. She is more concerned about appearances and social status than their well-being, leading to neglect and emotional distance in their relationship.
How do you leave someone who is in love with you when you do not feel the same way?
It's good person that would feel badly when they know they do not love the person they are with. Honesty is the best way to go and if you are not in love with someone else then be kind and tell your mate that you have fallen out of love through no fault of their own and you want to take time out for yourself. People do get over lost love.
How do you get over someone you love when that person does not feel the same?
If it is true love. You will let the other "someone" make choices you may not agree with. True love is wishing the best for the other, regardless of your feelings. As for you, time heals all wounds.
How do you get over someone you love that wants to me Single.?
Well it's will be hard trust me I KNOW but you just got belive and hope that someday that person will understand how they feel about you and how you feel about them.
How can you tell a friend that you love her?
you don't know but your heart will know..you can feel it if that someone loves you...just because someone tells you they love you over a thousand times doesn't always mean they love you...but if someone loves you they will show it to you without speaking a word.
You are in love with someone who is now in love with someone else how do you get over him?
You should find another lover.
How do you no if you have fallen in love?
You feel it in your stomach before you do anywhere else. When you lean over to kiss and you can feel knots in your stomach, it is love!
Can you give up true love for the sake of your children?
I do believe that children should be a priority, But then I also feel that your true love should also be a priority. Can a person not have both?? If something is truly wanted can't it be made possible? Must a choice be made? Would the person who chooses his children over his supposed true love be called weak, or a coward?
How you love a girl?
There is know right way to love a girl. Sometimes love just happens or you devlop your love for them over time. but, you cannot make yourself love someone. But, when you do find someone that you truly love, you will feel it. You know when your in love with a girl because shell change your entire world. Youll want to be with her every moment of everyday. Your going to do whatever it takes to make her smile and feel happy. Youll know when you love a girl because you miss her when you two are seperated. basically, your going to feel like an entirely new person. So, how do you love a girl? if you know you dont feel differently with her than you do other girls, shes most likely not the one.
What does it mean when someone says they feel like they are in a rut?
They feel stuck doing the same things over and over.
