What do you do when your annoyed with siblings?

Answer 1

You use a lot of patience. Unfortunately, you're not the parent so you can't really discipline. Unless you are authorized by your parent's to do so and backed up by your parents, discipline from you will probably result in further brattiness.

Even though you aren't a parent, it couldn't hurt to use some parenting techniques that aren't discipline, more like psychology. An important element in affecting children's behavior is how you react to it.

Parenting rule number one: Catch them being good. In other words, save your visible reactions for when they're doing something right and respond accordingly. Show as little reaction as possible when they are being bad. If they need to be removed from a difficult (aggravating) situation, do it kindly but firmly. If you want them out of your room, for example, and they don't respond to verbal instruction, do not yell; gently but firmly, without showing anger, take their two shoulders and move them out of the room. At first you'll have to repeat over and over, ask, ask, move. If you always use this technique, they'll begin to take you seriously when you do ask. They'll know what to expect.

Parenting rule number two: Show by example. You can't expect them to stop yelling, taunting, teasing, or touching your things if you sometimes do it yourself. Never respond to any of these annoyances in kind, no matter how much you feel like it. Deal with each of these behaviors using the behavior that you'd like them to use.

Parenting rule number three: Listen to what they have to say. Even if they start by yelling, hurling accusations, etc., if you stop what you're doing to actually talk to them about THEIR problems, they'll be far more likely to listen when you tell them that you're having a problem (even when the problem is them).

Another helpful thing that you can do is read all about it. If your parents have a book or two on child development and what to expect at different stage of a child's development. For instance, once you know things like the stages of curiosity that children go through to learn about the world around them, you will begin to see the things that they do, like pulling apart your favorite bracelet, in a whole new light. If your parents don't have this kind of books, there is a lot of child development info on the internet or at the library.

Answer 2

You can never control another person. You can only control yourself.

Refuse to give in to tantrums. Whatever she wants, she can only have it by asking nicely.

Close your mouth and don't argue. At first, she will ignore you ignoring her, but in the end, if she doesn't get the argument she wants, she will give up trying.

Leave the room if her behaviour is not acceptable. You don't have to socialise iwth people who are anti-social.

Answer 3

You discuss it nicely and try to look at the argument from the other sibling's point of view.

Answer 4

You be as nice to her as possible, which will totally confuse her.

Answer 5

if she wants something you can give her, give it to her if not say no and if she starts crying say it's not my fault mum & dad don't want you to have it

Answer 6

Be nice to them anyways, or tell a parent