You need to forget about "dealing" with her since she won't get help until she realizes she NEEDS help. As far as your brother is concerned, you now need to help rebuild everything in him that she has torn down. You need to go overboard with praise and positive thoughts and strength. Listen to his problems and concerns and reinforce how much of a blessing it is to be rid of her. Buy books on Narcissism, abusive relationships and sociopaths. Once you recognize certain patterns and problems you'll be better able to help your brother. My heart goes out to the both of you. He'll be okay. It will be tough at first but he WILL be okay. ~ T Thanks for the response...it has been almost 4 years since the divorce(3 kids) and she STILL wants to tear him down.Her goal early on was to take all his money and bring him down. Her life is consumed with this. Now with a new custody battle with one child who wants to move in with dad...has breathed new fire.I have seen my brother with his heart so heavy from her poison over the years. To be so consistently so evil you would have to be sick. There is so much thought and negative energy put into this day in and day out. So many good days, weeks and years gone and there seems to be no end with the youngest being 9. To her, it is her mission in life and to my brother, he wants to move on and try to live with her in his life. I want my brother to find his fun and happy personality.And I want her to find another "source". Instead my brother has to find the money for lawyer bills.
Tell them they are hurting your feelings, and you've had about all you care to take.
No that is not her brother. When his parents could not take care of him Whitney did but they are not even blood related. But apparently they are engaged.
yes because i told he to
"Garder mon frere*" - take care of my brother "Garder mes freres" - take care of my brothers "Garder ma soeur" - take care of my sister "Garder mes soeurs" - take care of my sisters "Garder mes soeurs et freres" - take care of my sisters and brothers (siblings**) "Garder mon frere et ma soeur" take care of my brother and sister (siblings**) * There is an accent grave on the first 'e' in "frere" or "freres" ** There is no French word for "siblings," you just literally say "brothers and sisters"
Well my mum left me alone to take care of my little brother when I was about 13 or 14
"take care" means be careful. ususally someone else look after you. for example, " i look after my little brother"
It depends on how much you care about your brother. If you don't especially have to be with him, you should leave the problem to someone else. If you feel you could take better care of him than anyone else, then your life will be miserable, but you'll get to help your brother
its about 2 best friends who are in the middle of their biggest deal ever then one of them finds out he has kids and has to take care of them for two weeks and learns to take care of them and love them. When he finds out he has to move to japan to close the deal he quits his job to be with his kids
His daughter Hailie, his adopted daughters, Alaina and Whitney, and his half-brother, Nathan.
Take him or report to mental care doctors/social workers or the police
Of course he does he loves and would take care of all his family
its you who can deal with it rather than him, listen to him and earning his trust will let you take the control thereafter