Maybe, the child needs time to get use to the idea that his or her parent is now with someone else, and if your bossing them around or trying to be there mom or dad, don't. Or if there being bad their probably thinking that he or she is not getting enough attention, and now their acting out. Let the children get use to it, and let them come to you. Forcing something on a child is no good, it will just make them act up more. i don't what problems the children are causing, but children need more attention and shouldn't be blamed.
First of all you need to try to understand why they hate you. There could be a number of different reasons, in particular the fact that you are taking over the position of their parent. Maybe you are assuming the role of parent so much that they question you're authority, and so you need to not be too strict with them, but be strict enough that they respect you. Above all you must be patient with them, and make sure they know that whatever happens you can help them. Try to not get them to see you as their father/mother but as a friend.
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The above answer is an excellent one. One thing I can say from experience is, you need the support of your spouse. S/he and you need to let the children know that you ARE to be treated with respect, and not accept anything less. They don't have love you, but they DO have to respect you.
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If any of the above ring a bell with you, then this needs to be addressed with the children, but without putting down the other parent, and without going into details that are none of their business, or too personal.
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Betty White has three step-children, two step daughters and a step son.
Betty White has three step-children, two step daughters and a step son.
Not if the mother is in the childern's lives. If you married the father then the children cme along too, you are now the step-mother and have to take that responsibility if it is given to you.
God's Step Children was created in 1938.
If they are not your daughter's children, then they are all step children. They will be called step-grand children. If they have children, those are step-great grand children. If they are your daughter's children, you must know that they are your grand children as they are directly related to you.
No President Barack Obama does not have any step children
The duration of God's Step Children is 1.17 hours.
Betty White has three step-children, two step daughters and a step son.
The simple answer is NO, step parents do not have legal "rights" regarding their step-children. In order to have legal parental rights the step parent must legally adopt the children.
She didnt have any children or step children....she couldn't have babies
No. Step-children have no rights or interest regarding a step-parent's life insurance unless they are a named beneficiary on the policy. Step-children have no rights in a step-parents estate unless they are named in the step-parent's Will. In that case a step-parent can leave the proceeds of a life insurance policy to a step-child by their Last Will and Testament.
In a marriage in which both the husband and the wife have children from a previous marriage, the children are step-children to the parent who is not their bioloigical parent, and are step-siblings (step-brothers and step-sisters) to each other.