It is actually quite simple to detest a divorce. First you must have a strong feeling of not liking the divorce. When you express that dislike you are detesting it. But if you mean "contest" then that is something entirely different.
Divorce is a court-heavy, multi-step process and the issuance of a divorce decree or certificate comes near the end of the divorce. Depending on what state your live on, divorces can take anywhere...
You can, however, it requires that you file an answer to your spouses Complaint for Divorce and include a cross-complaint for divorce. If either through mutual consent or an order of the Matrimonial...