Finding the woman you are looking for may be a good idea, but unfortunately you can't undress every woman you see, so you have to look around, there's no way we can recommed how you can do this, use your own imagination.
Everybody is different - nowhere more so than with breasts. Probably it is very nice on you. Don't worry - that's fine. Flat chest and large nipples are very sexy, you should feel special.
By not being shallow. Why should it matter?
My GF is flat chested; she's the best woman I've ever known. If a man chooses a woman just for the way she looks, their relationship will never work or...
You might and you might now. You could just be a late bloomer or your genetics may just be different. The slimmer you are the less breast tissue you will have. After you are older, if you ever start...